^inb4 “HURR DELICIOUS BUTTERY GENDER ROLLS”
No one puts anyone in the firendzone. It’s just something that’s there.
Hmm… No, I’m pretty sure you either put youself there or the girl does it and leaves you the subtle hints. Or you’re smart and understand you’re in the friend zone.
Behold my diagram of diagraminess (basic diagram excluding complicated things like fuck buddies and what not). You see my friends. Friendzones do exist and you cannot deny them. Its just a state of rejection. Friendzone is the state of [COLOR=‘DarkGreen’]2. However many people are confused! They think they have been friendzoned when in fact they have not been friendzone! In order for something to be [COLOR=‘Indigo’]rejected it has to be proposed and many cases of “friendzoning” do not have the [COLOR=‘Sienna’]party who wishes to be in a relationship proclaiming such. This is a case [COLOR=‘Sienna’]party 1 ending in a situation like[COLOR=‘DarkGreen’] 2 but is not actually rejection, they have put themselves there [COLOR=‘Purple’]party 2 never rejected them. People complain about friendzones but it could be worse depending on you feel they could put you in situation [COLOR=‘DarkGreen’]3. Also if you are friendzoned you always have to ability to turn the table! Give them a taste of situation [COLOR=‘DarkGreen’]1. Though people get friendzoned and get all glum about it probably don’t have it in them to stand up for themselves.
[COLOR=’#22222’]I was bored
Some wisdom to impart
^ That kinda happened to me for my first relationship.
For my current one, her best friend keeps hitting on me. O.o;
So, she’s in the friendzone, or is she not your friend? 
ZONECEPTION
Step 1: Reject all forms of happiness
Step 2: Never become friends with anyone
Step 3: ???
Step 4: PROFIT!
I just gave you the key to never becoming friend-zoned. Enjoy your miserable life you unhappy sack of shit.
All that I have as far as friends and romance goes pretty much just fell into my lap in the form of people who liked what I do.
All the work goes into keeping the relationship where you want it to be, wherever that is.
For me, that used to be however exclusive i needed to b to warrant me enough free time to dick around with my hobbies.
I didn’t have the drive or understanding to actively maintain another person’s happiness until me and the person I’m with realized we were more than just friends.
I had people interested in me before both platonic and romantic that I honestly did not care enough about to let inside my roster of known human beings.
Up until a few months ago all I cared about was monstrous lizard dudes fucking and now here I am working toward the american dream
Wait are you no longer turned on by giant lizards?
This.
I believe it exists. I’m in it right now. But I’m not using it to blame her or anything. It just fits the definition of what a friendzone is.
I am now more than ever. And I’m not the only one~
So basically what it all boils down to is this:
Some interpret being “friendzoned” as being a conscious decision on one party’s side, while others maintain that it is simply a description for a certain situation.
Also, lol this is a thread;
a++ I was worried keresk made it disappear for good
Lizards are alright.
It exists. You may put yourself there, be put there, just find yourself there, want to stay there in the desperate hope that something may change, not want to stay there and get out, want to get out but be unable to, be manipulated into washing cars and doing errands while there, be treated like platonic gold while there, be a cuddle bitch, etc., etc. None of that changes the fact that it exists and that people the world over are in it.
Friendzone very simply = one person wanting a romantic relationship and not getting it, the second not wanting it and not giving it, and the result being a state of ‘friendship’ where the above motives haven’t changed.
^^^ gonna have to go ahead and +1
This, any other interpretation of “friendzone” is just silly.
/thread?
Quite much. That is the definition of Friendzone, so saying it doesn’t exists would be like saying that the word “Table” doesn’t exist. You might not like it, but a furniture piece with four legs and a surface so you can put stuff on it will remain a table no matter what your preferences are.