I hated SGU too. Almost everyone in it was an asshole. I wanted to like that one so bad, but I just couldn’t like anyone but the Colonel? I forgot who that lead military guy was. Everyone else sucked.
SGU was alright. It had A LOT of potential, really wish they had branched it out more. I don’t think it deserved to be axed imo.
Same case with me and reading people as well. I honed that skill over a few years. If I actually focus on the situation and pay attention I can tell what someone’s thinking about the current conversation that’s going on. After years of interaction, you get into a rhythm and you just go ahead and relax around those you trust. You get less vigilant about those things as well in those circumstances, it’s natural. Like I said, don’t let it get to you.
It seems like a minor issue, but if you’re anything like me, trust is something that is a big deal to you. In my case, I don’t open up to people easily. I mean I’m sociable and approachable, but it’s a whole different ball park when it comes to trust and if I can confide in you or not about my problems. Yeah, I bitch constantly here about my personal problems, but I don’t confide in anyone here about it. The Rage Topic is more or less an anonymous public diary for everyone here.
Kindness is a double-edged sword. She may have been worried about how you’d react among other things. Women are complex creatures after all.
Yeah, I’m the same way. I can get along with almost anyone, but I only have 3-4 close friends. My whole relationship with them was built solidly off of trust for them. To have her do this to me, even if she didn’t mean it, is like having my heart ripped out. It hurts to think about any of it, right in my chest. It tightens up really tight and won’t go away.
Too bad alcohol doesn’t fix anything for me xD
Mhm. I can definitely see where you’re coming from, and it’s a huge blow to have your trust abused like that, but maybe you don’t have the full picture.
I know that fairly recently a friend of mine got into a situation where a couple people he was talking about working with next year got an offer from another group, which they had all but decided to take, and he found out about it (as well as an added “for sure”) from a second party literally minutes before they were going to talk to him about it. Now he doesn’t feel like he can trust either of them ever again.
I’ve talked to one of them, she said she felt really bad about what had happened, and I believed her, but telling him that does no good.
But hey, at least you tried, right? Trust me, it would hurt a lot more if you hadn’t taken a chance and let her know before all this happened. Then you’d really be hating life, and yourself.
On an unrelated note, still no word from my building manager on that furniture I paid for 24 days ago. I think I need to call him yet again, and maybe remind him that taking money without rendering a service is this thing called “theft”.
^ I’d have demanded my money back by now. It really is something you should do or at least negotiate a better price.
Alcohol just makes your problems compound for the short time you’re drunk. Being social’s better for you. Being both is best though.
She’s obviously not interested in you. She has no obligation to keep you apprised of her romantic life.
The feelings of anger and hurt you’re having are normal, but it’s important that you realize that they’re your feelings, and she’s not responsible for them 
edit: missed a page (and didn’t really read everything on the last one properly), don’t feel like reading up 
Maybe you already do etc., I don’t know 
But you won’t get over those feelings unless you take responsibility for them.
about SGU: I loved that show. I don’t remember enough details to actually comment on it though. Except that the whole civilian vs. military thing was very much overplayed and could have been solved rather simply if not for hollywood dramatics.
some MRA dickhead went and shot up a sorority because nobody ever sat him down and told him he wasn’t entitled to love, sex, or women.
Another 7 people are dead because boys are raised to believe they deserve relationships and sexual encounters.
^ What’s your proof? If you’re referring to the shooting in Cali, it wasn’t a sorority. His victims were part of a sorority. Facts before assumptions and make sure you can back them up.
Edit: In b4 gun control flame war.
Edit #2: I also despise celebrities being in the fucking news constantly. Is it relevant? No (usually). Why should we give a flying fuck about some wedding with a moron and his bimbo?
It has nothing to do with how society treated him, and everything to do with him personally.
Let’s keep this to raging rather than debate. We can have debate in another thread.
Rage on!
DEATH TO ALL STUPID PEOPLE! 
There you go again, trying to shift blame from society.
Why does everyone jump to blame the perpetrator for all of this?
It’s not an issue of gun control. It’s an issue of rape culture and the patriarchy we all inhabit. We as males should be more concerned about this shit and trying to shrug it off isn’t going to fix anything.
\I’m not going to bother with you clowns.
Fuck y’all and fuck gamers across the globe. I’m outta here
this is a rage topic not a politics topic, even though politics and things like it can cause rage it is not the type of rage we want on this topic.
I’m kinda in the same boat. There’s this girl I’m very much attracted to at my work. However, she is now involved with another of my coworkers. Recall the “Moby Dick” comic? I’ve edited it to reflect my feelings right at this moment.
https://i.imgur.com/p0wtOvp.jpg
I shouldn’t feel this way, but every time I see them interact together, I can’t help it…
so most of you are saying our male-dominated culture isn’t responsible for some horrible things and also the sense of sexual/romantic entitlement some men have?
that’s weird, i thought it was the 21st century
Pretty much ha except I’ve never met him. I’ll just be texting her and she’ll mention how shes hanging out with him after work and then she’ll suddenly stop texting back till I decide to text her the next day. Now that I know for sure, it’s obvious what was happening anyways. So I know ha I got so depressed about it after I found out the truth for sure. All those times came back and I was like “wow…totally got completely ignored for some guy…I dunno how to take that.” And now still, thinking about it gives me a kinda hollow feeling in my stomach. I think part of it’s due to the fact that it was her first boyfriend, and a small part of me wanted to claim that bit. Dumb, but…I dunno, I just wanted to really. Selfish of me ha but eh…
I’ve seen him comment on some of her statuses and such, so I knows what he looks like. He’s…pretty much the opposite of me. Same height, but skinny, athletic, good looking…you know, normal stuff that girls go crazy for. Same with the other guy as well.
Anyways, I tried to talk to her today and apologize for getting so offended and jealous, as it was extreme for me. I told her the biggest thing was the whole lying bit and how much it hurt to not be able to believe her about something so small in aspect (though large considering my feelings) as well as how she just suddenly dropped it on me like it was nothing important. The shock factor didn’t help haha
Though it took her awhile to actually say anything back (kinda sat awkwardly there with her at a park) before she started to apologize for lying. She basically said:
“You are important, friends are just as important as anyone else. I’ve just been a shitty person recently and it’s normal to not want to share your feelings (in response to me saying I don’t share mine, but I don’t lie either). I always hide mine or try to, and youre so important, you’re not just another face. You try to do everything you can for your friends” and then she talked about how she tells herself she doesn’t like them, but can’t make herself believe it. And also, she apologized for lying, and said she didn’t mean to hurt me over it (which I believe). Then she ended by saying she doesn’t want to lose me as a friend and that she feels horrible about all of this.
All in all, it alleviated several bits of stress and anger, but other parts not so much. But as bur said above (and I agree as I said earlier) my feelings are my own fussy and making. I can like her all I want, but holding the fact that she likes others against her is wrong on many levels.
Unfortunately, no matter how many times I try to tell her I’m not mad at her LIKING the other guys, just stupidly jealous, she won’t believe me. Which really sucks, cause I don’t want her to feel like I’m gonna fly off the handle everytime she meets someone. Cause I really won’t, it’s primarily the lie that lead to my hopes rising and then crashing and burning that sparked my sadness and anger versus the fact there is a guy. I mean, I may get jealous, but I can control that much more easily than incredulous pain and anger at being hurt like that. I told her “I don’t care who you like. Just so long as you’re happy and they treat you alright, I’m happy with it all.” Which is the whole truth. Just her happiness is good for me to be ok and ahoy with it. Not saying I didn’t want more before. Now, I’m not really so sure that I’d be able to open back up to her like before and even try to date her if she wanted. I think it wouldn’t work well after this all.
Edit: one of my biggest concerns now is if any of this is just hot air…just cause she feels bad. She’s not the kinda person to hurt someone on purpose for no real reason, so it could all be her putting a bandaid on the situation. Or… It could be the truth. I guess only her actions will prove that.
Dude, be glad you weren’t her first relationship. First relationships end badly like 90% of the time. Woman I met at college was in her first relationship, lasted a grand total of less than two months. So yeah.
Ha, for some reason that really cracked me up, the topic itself isn’t that pleasing howevs :retard:
Yeah I guess you just have to wait if her actions contradict her statement or overall personality… But let me tell you, if she hurts you again in that way, I would seriously consider if you maybe don’t know her like you believed you do. bur said that your feelings are your own fuss, BUT if she continues to act like she did, now KNOWING how you are reacting to this, your feelings SHOULD also be her concern, if she still wants to have you (as a friend). May be veeery hard, but if the other person is just hurting you, even on an unintended level, it may be better to break it down. Surrounding you with people that put you down isn’t good, I can tell by personal experience. Of course, you should’nt break up in bad blood if it comes to this (I really hope for you it won’t come this far).
I have a somewhat similar experience: A fellow student I am good friends with over approx. the last 1-2 years was my crush, right now I’m not so sure if she still really is. She wasn’t from the first day, it developed over the time I got to know her. She had a few different boyfriends over the time, the relationship didn’t last long in any case. Back then and until now I never had the balls to tell her how much I like her and didn’t saw a reason, because she already was in a relationship at that moment. The only thing I wanted was to see her lucky. So why maybe putting my friendship with her at risk by telling her my feelings when she’s in a relationship ? Right now she already has another boyfriend, but I can tell that she isn’t really happy right now and it seems to me she never was with either of them. Because why else would you have some month-long relationship just to get another guy the other day ? In my eyes she seeks something that she didn’t find in any of them. By knowing that, I’m not so sure anymore I’d like to be in a relationship with such a (too demanding !?) person, knowing I probably will end up like them and also having ruined our friendship that way. Additionally I don’t long for her that desperate anymore, there are tons of thousands of other awesome girls out there. It’s just that she’s somehow my soulmate that keeps me bond to her…
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