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I love you too.

Whenever you act like an asshole and it’s funny, you’re still being an asshole and I’m okay with that (and others as well).

All forums are shit, they never go into deeper shit they will always stay in the same amount of shit by default. After all, shittiness is like your opinion man.

Well, what do you want? For people to be forced into posting how you want them to? And if they don’t they meet the banhammer?

All I do is call upon people to use the English language relatively correctly - anyone over the age of ten from an English speaking country should be able to do that just fine. Just TRY is a great start, I don’t usually go too anal about it, especially if it’s just the odd missed capital or whatever here and there. I also pull people up on bullshit or plain stupidity - if you’re wrong, you’re wrong. Deal with it, accept it, learn from it. Don’t cry just because I don’t sugar coat it when I point it out to you. I make my point, and back it up with logic, reason, and facts etc. I’m not going to hold your hand and tell you it will be OK. THAT would be making excuses for people.

I don’t need to know peoples level of education, nor do I bother disclosing mine. Their education and intelligence comes across perfectly clearly in their posts. I’m sick of people demanding everyone else to lower their standards of grammar and intelligence to their low level of comprehension so that they fit in, and because it’s “just the internet”. Not only that, but where does it end? Some people make an effort but get a few things wrong, some people go further and forego any punctuation, and others typ al thr stuf n txt. Where does it end? Just what level of laziness and stupidity is acceptable? Why is any of it acceptable? Is it really that hard to press a few extra keys, or are some people just that dumb? Why should everyone lower their standards to accommodate the retards?

And I am fully aware of how I come across. You seem to have incorrectly assumed that I am here to cultivate opinions of me, good or bad. Do you think I’m here to try and be everyone’s friend, and am just doing a really bad job of it or something lol?

Wow, you just keep missing the mark. I guess your mere 23 years (lol aren’t you a big boy, let me know how you feel about all this when you reach my age) hasn’t been enough for you to learn a lot yet. Don’t worry, it will come. Again, you wrongly assume that I am here to make friends with everyone, that I have been employing humour in all my posts, that I am trying to endear myself to anyone in the mod or the community. You REALLY don’t know how to read people or understand points being made. Most people with intelligence, pride, self respect and a basic set of standards will tend to agree with my points, if not my methods of communicating them. You can’t win 'em all, but it’s nice to try and get/tell/teach/shock/humiliate people into raising their standards instead of expecting others to lower theirs. If that means a few people that I have not met/will never meet dislike me, then so be it.

I joined here because I am looking forward to the mod, and was hoping to discuss things with people that have similar interests. Instead I have found stupidity and laziness not only more common than usual, but actually being forced upon anyone that dares to ask for a higher (normal) standard of conversation. Yes, there are a few young ones here that get a little silly and I pretty much try to identify and ignore when possible, and of course people for whom English is not native to them deserve plenty of room with English mistakes.

I am still here as there are plenty of members that are “normal” and worth discussing things with or seeing what they have to say, to keep up with the mod and the dev team, and so on. It’s just a shame that a few of the morons are the “loudest” ones here, trying to drag everyone else down to their low standards of intellect, grammar and conversation.

*Cue obligitory complaints from the dummies about “TL;DR”, “Wall of text” etc, once again wanting people to lower their standards to suit their attention span and intellect lol.

TL;DR

I don’t post often because I tend to not really care anyways, and I feel bad for those who write out large paragraphs to argue pointless discussions. When I do care I just put in my thoughts and then forget I posted.

I tend to only post when I have something to add to the discussion (if there is a proper one going on); which isn’t that often.

Exactly, we’ve run out of things to talk about, so instead we complain about each others signatures and flame the newer members.

What we need is more solid topics for discussion, something that hasn’t been done before.

This is one member I try my hardest not to respond to… Maybe being hungover hasn’t helped too much :stuck_out_tongue:

Like anyone, I respect your opinions and you are more than entitled to them. However, what I don’t agree with is your crusade to ‘educate’ every member of the forum to your way of thinking. You are not here to enforce your warped standards on the forum, you should be here to engage in discussion with a like-minded community. However, since you are clearly unhappy with the community why don’t you leave and find a more high-brow forum

If you go into a bar and don’t like it, do you leave or go around calling everyone a retard until they ‘raise their standards’? And how long do you think it will be before somebody puts you on your arse outside the front door?

As far as I can see, not a single one of your posts has been constructive in any way, shape or form. Justify it as you may, you are a patronising elitist, a prime example of what seems to have been the consensus of a large number of posts here.

To the mods, I’m sorry for mentioning names and humbly beg forgiveness. But I completely fail to see why this member has not been banned for his behaviour and attitude.

On a slightly different note, its nice to see a topic where proper debate has taken place for several pages on topic :smiley:

I think lots of people are just stubborn on the forums and want to move you to their way of thinking, it just gets annoying and people are normally rude about it.

I was going to ignore you for the rest of my life but you forced me
Shasta you are kind of a guy who would argue a mentally ill person to make him admit he’s crazy. I was going to post something much longer but I understood this is enough for you.
For you if a person can’t speak English he is stupid. People in here are trying to speak your language but you don’t respect that right? You don’t respect anything. You tell people you are trying to teach them but only thing you do is flaming and insulting them. NOW! learn from me! People don’t need your judgement nor your punishment. Not Everybody is gifted with enough intelligence. This does not give you the right to insult them. WE are here to have good time. Sometimes I do things i regret, too. But your posts are not funny nor they are educational. I’d post more but i won’t. because i know you are intelligent enough to understand me. and I don’t give a shit if i made mistakes in this posts. Because that’s my problem not yours.

Now don’t be a prick, learn and go. No one will judge you.

This is true, and there are also others who AREN’T okay with that.

Do you actually believe this? I know for a fact not all forums are shit, and if you think that’s true, then it’s probably because you keep shitting all over them.

Quite frankly, yes. That’s what banning is for, even if it’s only temporary; to be able to enforce a certain level of quality, since entropy pretty much leans towards things descending into shit if left unchecked. Go ahead and claim the “what makes YOUR opinion more valid than MINE?” angle, but what the hell makes YOUR opinion more valid? Banning may be a method to enforce my opinion on you, but you can already enforcing your opinion(that forums are shit and people should just put up with the shit on them) on others just by being an asshole and getting away with it.
Forums are for discussing a subject and trying to have fun TOGETHER. There are other ways to have fun than just one person dumping their shit on someone else so that they can have fun at the expense of that person.

So it’s not OK for me to try and get people to use correct grammar, or to think things through before posting, but it IS OK for people to tell everyone to lower their standards? I can’t ask people to use their education, but others can demand everyone abandon theirs? Lovely.

And I didn’t say I was unhappy with the community here, I’m just pointing out the few trying to push low standards upon everyone else. If you make a mistake and are corrected by someone, try learning from the mistake and accept that you were wrong - don’t try and make everyone lower their standards or try to justify your mistake, “it’s just the internet, don’t be picky, etc etc”. If it’s not a big deal to you, then ignore it. I do agree with you however about this thread staying on topic and being debated. Good to see.

…And I don’t even know how you are, or how I did it. I’m discovering new superpowers every day. I hope I get the ability to fly next. Fingers crossed…

I understand that English is not your native language, so I’ll give you the opportunity to re-read my earlier post on that very issue:

That means that I feel people using English as a second language should be forgiven for English mistakes they make.

So Shasta you are here to give everyone English and grammar lessons or are you here to talk about the mod?

I thought this was about Black Mesa, not about school. Maybe I missed something. If are as old as you claim why would you try to present yourself as some sort of male bravado on a message board mostly filled with teenagers?

I figured you would have found better things to do at your age, like racquetball, tennis or maybe a good time playing water polo.

This idiot is getting on my nerves. I can say I don’t troll, or take troll bait, but I’ll make an acceptation this round.

That’s the thing, you can poke holes in your “theory” while most of the developed countries that have English speaking natives, some of them don’t.

They could be foreigners, others could be in third world countries that have no shit of their own and it needs to be shipped in. It’s how the world works, don’t like it, have a blatant reality check.

sigh You really need to look at your own posts, to smell the irony. Honestly? Really? You grill people about grammar when I see several holes in yours, yet I tend to ignore it.

Take note: Paragraphs are your friends.

Though I can agree with one thing; You need a back bone to post here and you need to make sense, if you don’t, you come across looking like a moron.

The fact of intelligence or in some cases lack thereof doesn’t change the case.

I don’t give a flying fuck about what education you have either, I’d go ahead and tell you to shove that PHD up your ass… that’s what I would honestly say.

Y’know what? I don’t think anyone cares. You don’t have to lower your standards, other people can or do. That doesn’t mean you have to.

And I can agree with everyone here, that at some point in our lives, we’ve made ourselves look stupid, I guess it’s one of those occasions.

The level of stupidity is relative to IQ, low IQ=stupidity High IQ=intelligent and civil conversation.

You rank in the lower end of the spectrum at the moment due to the fact you’re wearing your ass hat, the same can be said about me.

Y’know what? I honestly don’t care.

I hope you don’t act like that in person, else you’ll find it hard to get a wife.

I’m not judging but from the way you act, you seem like a very sad little man.

I don’t give a shit if you want to be an ass hat or someone’s friend, the simple fact that you have some dignity about someone else’ opinion tells that you come across as a good person and therefore a more likable person.

As such; you have a better life and as a result, you live longer, less stress, etc.

Some of us seem to be far more mature than you are. Such is the case with me. And I’m younger than you are by at least 10 years I wager.

I made an acceptation to let the mask come off to tell you how things are going. Don’t like it? Fuck you.

That doesn’t really work when you have 0 wit to add to it, I haven’t seen any humorous posts out of you period.

I guess it’s the simple fact that I smell irony all over your posts.

Set some basic standards. Don’t lower them, this I can agree with, however there is a fine line between becoming an ass hat and having some basic standards.

Some of us have egos, some of us have maturity, some of us have both an ego and maturity, it’s a balance and every person is different. Some of them are idiots, others are good people. This is the human race, welcome to Earth, population: 6 Billion, 80% of those people can and will get on your nerves, enjoy your stay.

Look past the book cover instead of being a moron, because you end up looking like one in the end if you don’t.

Don’t like it, leave. Pretty simple, hm?

Then avoid the IQ dropped convos. I could care less about your opinion, no one asked you to start flaming/trolling here, neither did they ask me to do this to you.

But I’m doing it anyway.
Why?
Because I felt like it, that’s why.

Simply: Avoid the stuff you don’t like instead of fuming 24/7 it’s not healthy.

I only lurk because I have nothing of note to add, then again I don’t care. I only watch because of the fireworks, it’s fun to as someone else has said.

I really don’t care what you have to say, it’s the internet, it’s how it works.

Other than the fact I see three spelling errors and you not splitting it into paragraphs shows you’re not worth to be with the Nazis, thank you come again.

/end flame post.

Sorry for the BS Catz and/or moderators who decide to read the wall 'o text.

yes, this should stop or it will not end nicely

Let’s hope so, I won’t be posting that again… I don’t like doing it but he needs to shut up.

More likely than not I’ve set myself up for a flame war, because most people like that tend to NOT like their ego being broken and will respond with even more ferocity.

If he does respond to me at all, which is highly likely.

Wow… people are getting properly pissed… I guess it’s understandable when people are discussing problems with the forum then someone comes and does exactly what they hate in the thread they’re discussing it to supposedly fix the problem.

I agree that it is better to use proper English language, but I also believe that no one has the right to force people to do something while being such as arsehole. In my opinion, unless you’re at least a moderator you shouldn’t be lecturing people on what they’re typing, a lot of times people attack the way that the point is put across and not the actual point itself.

I can understand if at the end of your post while discussing the topic you could point out to the person that their English isn’t up to scratch but there’s no need to be such a prick about it.

sigh I do admit I let it get the better of me, but he’s an internet bully, you have to stand up for yourself if you want to live in the world.

If I have to I’ll carry this on in PMs till the sucker puts me to his ignore list.

In my opinion, I do agree. It can be entertaining to sit back and watch (I’m sure a few of the guests are reading my post and thinking “Ooh! He’s gonna get it!”) But overall, you have to stand up for yourself, if you don’t, people walk all over you.

As I said, every one is mature or has an ego, the case with me is I have both. And I use one, the other, or both depending on the situation.

I’m a very flexible person and that’s how I make friends of all kinds, including egotistical jackasses like him. I know of at least one person who’s younger than I am and he’s very similar in how he acts.

To add on; I had to beat the respect he has for me into him.

It’s egotistical bastards like this that I don’t give two shits about things sometimes. And probably apart of the reason some people don’t post.

Back 2 topic; Some people don’t know the English language, actually it’s one of the hardest to learn as a 2nd language. And y’know I accept that, I know people of all kinds, some brits, some Canadians, most Americans.

You don’t be an ass hat about people’s race, gender, or where they’re from, or even their grammar, pick the shit together and interpolate the very bad grammar/spelling post as you would correctly and spit out the appropriate answer.

This would be what most of the people are asking for if I’m not wrong.

I think it is what puts people off when coming to the forum, they click on a suggestion and then see how people flame the person. Sometimes it’s a perfectly acceptable suggestion but then people pick apart what he said because his grammar was a bit wrong or poor sentence structure or something else extremely pedantic.

Like I said I can understand why people can get so annoyed with this sort of thing, where there’s a person who goes as though this is an English lesson and everyone who makes a mistake is stupid.

edit: I also don’t see why, if you think someone is stupid you should get condescending and high and mighty, rather than flaming them for a stupid suggestion, some tolerance and simple explanations can go much further. eg. “[suggestion that has been asked before]” “hi, [answer], although it was in the faq which you should read [link]”.

Just having the forum as a more pleasant place will encourage posting, obviously joking is fine as long as it doesn’t get to “I’m better than you because my use of sentence structure and punctuation is far superior”

Nice idea, but I don’t see any people with low IQ posts avoiding the threads with intelligent discourse.

Sorry, but no, I agree with Shasta here. So far just about every statement I’ve seen him make has a reasonable basis, yet the responses are completely twisting his words:

What follows?

He’s using paragraphs. What the hell are you on about?

He missed a letter ‘e’, misplaced a ‘u’ (humour is a correct spelling of the word) and used an ‘a’ instead of an ‘i’ in the midst of a 500+ word post, that’s less than 1% failure rate. That is pretty much covered by that portion of his first quote that I underlined and bolded for emphasis, so I’m failing to see the irony here.

Now, lets go back and look at what that was responding to:

Hrmm… did he say living or native to an english speaking country? No, he said FROM, in which case it is perfectly reasonable to have expectations of a certain basic ability to demonstrate correct use of the language, or AT LEAST BE ATTEMPTING TO.

Call him on being an asshole, fine. I’ll point out myself that it’s stupid to think you can raise the intelligence of a place by being an asshole, whether intelligent and educational or not. You want to correct people’s grammar and spelling, you’re going to have to be polite about it or you aren’t going to get jack shit. I don’t care, but don’t call him on hypocrisy unless it’s actually there.

Agreed, this kind’ve behavior is what discourages people from posting period.

If some of the mods would crack down on people like him less of this crap would be happening. I come here to read up on the mod, and if I’m bored look at what’s in the YLYL threads for a good laugh.

Other times, I spend time with my girl and soon-to-be wife and forget about my machine for the day.

I don’t come here to read flame wars or listen to trolls. I just want useful information, explicit (AkA BEEEEEEEPPP you hear when someone cusses on the TV) and guys like him can be banned, they usually have nothing of worth to add to a thread.

Thank you, sir. I can see that.

The point I was making I suppose inside of my flame post is that you shouldn’t judge people as being a fucktard when they acted like one ONE time. I can say I went a little over board with it, but seriously, guys like this piss me off sometimes, I tend to ignore it.

There are suppose to be breaks in some of his sentences. They aren’t there, thoroughly read one of them, I’ll give one as a case and point.

I added breaks there so you can see, compare it to the original post, it helps to get your point across better if you DO USE BREAKS IN THE RIGHT PLACES.

Misread on my part. Anyway, thank you for pointing it out.

It’s friendly argumentative skills like this that people should act like. I know you’re not trying to defend him (I think) but his points are meant to infuriate and start a flame war, not give a point on level ground with some one, he’s acting like a bully where as you are acting like an adult.

If he wants to bully, he’ll get bullied back in some cases, if he wants to be an asshole, he’ll get an asshole back. As the old saying goes: Treat them as you want to be treated.

Founded in 2004, Leakfree.org became one of the first online communities dedicated to Valve’s Source engine development. It is more famously known for the formation of Black Mesa: Source under the 'Leakfree Modification Team' handle in September 2004.