Girl Advise

gugamilare I am at a loss. While I do like chocolate, I do not understand women’s facination with the confection. It has never done THAT for me. :wink:

We are mothers by design. The need to fix is part of who we are. Embrace it or deny it… :3

I dunno. ARE you? Do you have the resources to provide for a family? Do you have the obnoxiousness to offer a creative mystery challenge for a woman?

Gotta have one or the other to make a woman want ya. That said I must agree that we are such predictable folk arent we? Makes me kinda sad with how persnickity we are.

Why is life so unfair?

Well, at least the control freaks among us do. Just google “sex slave training” and have a good read :slight_smile:

Zerego I will let you know when I figure that out. Folks around me have things very good. Children are pillars of society, money is flowing, jobs are great, health is spotless, life is good.

Me… not so good. And I am a good girl.

I’m reminded of a rather sexist joke (though I don’t know who it’s being sexist TO!):

Women marry men hoping they will change, but they don’t.
Men marry women hoping they won’t change, but they do.

AMEN! Oh so true eh?

lol

Why do women always feel the need to always be among other women?

I am suspicious of my girl. She’s acting very distantly lately, and she talks alot with her boss. Any thoughts and/or advice?

Why don’t I know any girls that live within 5 miles of me?

Try harder.

The only thing I don’t like about the “fix” portion is that a woman trying to ‘fix’ a man comes off, to me, as the woman disrespecting the man. (“Sheesh, you can’t even dress correctly! You’d look better in this.” for example.)

women are like wolves. They do better in packs.
distant girlfriend? Get her flowers and watch what happens.

  1. If she squeals in surprise and offers hugs and kisses with a bunch of hoopala, you have nothing to worry about.
  2. If she offers a lukewarm thanks and puts them in a vase without offering a lot of hoopala, she is on her way out the door.

I didn’t say it was right. I just said that is how it is. :wink:

Edit: Oh… and it DOES look better on you. :stuck_out_tongue:

Now this is generally speaking however, cause I know a few girls who have absolutley nothing for flowers. :wink:

Meh, I’ve always thought that if a girl can’t respect me the way I am, they can fuck off, tbh.

Just note that I’m a lot kinder/nicer in person than I am on here.

Well, the first thing is what happens. After that she’s like stone. She’s away most of the time, and she almost never calls or anything.

EDIT: Just called her. She didn’t answer the phone. Like 67% of the time.

OMG I am so problematic! Where is the girl to fix me?

Is that convincing? :3

Wanna know my opinion? It’s not that life is fair or unfair. You have to suffer the consequences if you want something good for your life. For instance, it is good to love people, but, when you love, you will suffer when they suffer, and you will cry when you lose them. Same thing goes for determination: if you don’t have determination, you won’t conquer what you want to, but, if you have, you are likely to get disappointed when you fail. If you are a nice guy and you are not interested in one-night relationships, you want to get attached to a girl, then your heart will be broken when you find out that she doesn’t want the same.

Of course we fail: we are not wise man that always know what to do in each situation, nor we are kings to have whatever we want just by pointing our royal fingers. But we must keep trying, because, if we don’t, we will never get anything good for our own lives. To me, the most beautiful properties of probability is this: if you keep trying over and over, at some point you get the result you desire, unless, of course, if the result is essentially impossible. If a dice has a thousand sides, with only one blue side, you might throw it thousands of times and get red sides, but, if you keep throwing nevertheless, you will get the blue side facing up at some point.

Sadly, most people give up too easily. That is why they don’t suffer. But they also never win. You just shouldn’t give up. Well, I can’t. Giving up is the one disappointment that is strong enough for my heart not be able to handle. Anything else might make me cry for one night, or two years, but at some point they stay in the past :wink:

EDIT:

Wow! Now that is some nice information. And a smart idea :slight_smile:

Random number is random.

Mr. Shadow needs a new gurl. amirite?

4 years together…:’(

@gugamilare Well, she still doesn’t answer the phone most of the time.

acording to the advice I’m reading here, that would seem to be your (and my) problem. :what:

Nice guys get nothin’ :frowning:

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