I can’t, I’m just too awesome to hate.
There’s your problem right there. Non-nerds start at square one.
Oh yeah? I have had a relationship to 20% or the girls I have been in love with, which counts as only one girl at all in 30 years of my life. And we only started a relationship because she took the initiative. Otherwise I would still be a virgin.
Also: She has spoiled me for the rest of femalekind. Enjoy your awesome life, bro.
Danson, you really need to stop with this “I am so said” talk. This is getting tiresome and also driving yourself nuts.
I think you made a mistake here. You need to mark your territory, not bind and kiss her feet for dumping you. IMO you should have made clear that she won’t have a second chance if she dumped you. Friends, ok, no need to keep bad feelings, but relationship never more.
There was a movie I was watching another day, more or less like this, “My Best Friend’s Girl”. I saw the beginning of the movie where the girl tells the “nice guy” that she wanted to date other people before getting involved in a relationship with him, and he was all “Hum, ok, hum, no problem”, while actually not liking the situation. I was so angry I stopped seeing the movie a few minutes later.
He should have said: “You have to make up your mind if you want a chance with me or if you don’t. If you want to date other guys, the choice is yours, but I won’t be waiting for you.”
And, in case you wonder, I was never in a situation like that.
Quit complaining and quit “falling in love” with girls you’re not even in relationships with, maybe you’ll actually start dating or something.
Also, Winged One, I just actually read the extent of your post, and I must say you’re a huge push-over and “going back” to what was clearly a fractured relationship is just dumb. Quit being dumb and insecure, and just keep trying with new women.
How big were her tits, anyway? This is very important to the conversation.
I think you misunderstood. I was twisting the truth to make myself feel better. I have only been in love once. In other words, I have had one relationship. I’m only 20, but still.
@Winged One - Sounds like you need to actually go and SEE her, if you want her back, from her personality type, do the opposite of what she says, ie,
“dont come and see me”
“[COLOR=‘Lime’]ill be there in five”
Let her know your the one with the power haha, see what happens.
@Winged One: Even if it burns your heart to ashes and dust, you HAVE to tell her to go fuck herself. Tell her you do not want to hear from her any more, not see her, not even know her. Threaten her with a restraining order, in case she does not get the point. She has to stay the fuck away from you.
Either that will make her come crawling back on her knees, which means you will get what you want. Or she will actually follow your order, which means you will get what you really need.
Profit.
That^
I think thats what’s she best at though right? Isn’t she into that kinda shit?
It seems that every time I like a girl she turns out to be a lesbian. Is there something wrong with me?
@ JeffMOD
Nope, that happens to me frequently. Better yet, I turn them into lesbians just by liking them. I’m talented that way.
Yes, since that’s not an uncommon excuse to not date you.
The girl I was chasing a while back gave me her number and talked to me frequently. I thought it’d work out, but after a while of me asking her on a date, she stopped talking to me. I thought I was rejected.
I found out last month she’s actually a lesbian.
Winged One: Then you became serious in your pursuit?
I have a dilemma.
I’ve almost never met a girl in person that I would even consider dating. The problem is that the population where I live is so subpar in every way. I’d like to find a girl that’s attractive, not stupid, and not annoying.
In my high school, there’s maybe 2% attractive girls. Maybe 10% of those girls are not objectionably stupid. Then maybe 30% of those remaining are not annoying in any way. Out of the 1200 people in my school, that leaves .72 acceptable girls. Haven’t found one yet.
What the hell do I do?
Not care about getting a relationship in high school?
In high school, just focus on getting practiced in the ways of pleasing women. You can enter relationships, but don’t expect them to last long. Remember, you aren’t looking to marry here. You just want someone to practice on for when the girl you’re really attracted to comes along.
This thread is starting to look like the perfect piece of evidence to show that mankind sucks and that love really is a retarded concept.
For some, there’s no desire to be happy unless that happiness can be shared with a partner. To indulge only one’s self is a selfish and wasteful thing, whereas to indulge yourself and your partner is a worthwhile gesture of love.
There is no want, not even for entertainment, in the interest of keeping virgin to it so it could be seen/experienced in the future for the first time along with a partner.