He isn’t punishing people for being idiots, you are right.
I was just projecting my own petty character traits on god, as men did for thousands of years. Which brings me to this point.
That is why God’s character changes all the time. People believe in God, because it is a form of self-believe for people who do not deem themselves worthy to believe and worship themselves directly, or who are too insincere to do that publicly.
So they project their own traits, like jealousy or affinity for bloody revenge, or compassion and love, on god, and then worship these traits in him, altough these traits are theirs. That is why I personally believe Jesus to be a son of God, whatever the physical, biological, spiritual context is, because I project compassion onto God, because I’d like to worship the compassion in me, and Jesus taught compassion.
That is why I think God is in every one of us. Because he is a subjective reality, and everyone sees himself in God to some extent, as it is the case with all role models.
I hope my viewpoint is not too retarded.