The Unofficial Official Chat Thread

Relax. Don’t feel desperate. You’ll see her again, and you can ask her out then.

And to be fair to her - did you ever think that she gave you the opportunity to ask her out, and that perhaps she wanted you to, and then you didn’t? And that perhaps she might feel a bit like you?

Stop goofing around and ask her out like a manly man.

He has mentioned before that he has no means of communicating with her until he sees her again.

My thoughts would be to just not worry about it. There are women all over the damned place. Move your sights to another, and if she pops up and seems interested worry about it then. Until then ask someone else out.

Yes, that was why I asked her for her phone number the last time I saw her, to make up for not asking her out the time we spoke before that. But even though she looked happy that I asked for her number, she said she didn’t remember it and was in a rush, so I told her that I was ALWAYS at the gym on Tuesday and Wednesday nights, to which she said, “Ok, I will see you later,” and I haven’t seen her in seventeen days…

Like I said, not giving up, just not happy about the way things are going.

dude honestly she might just not be interested if shes avoiding you AND knows you like her

just being a dancer takes a shit ton out of you as well tbh some of my really good friends are drag queens/dancers and it takes incredible stamina to actually PERFORM and not just dance

ooh - she didn’t give you her number because she said she didn’t remember it? Hm - time to move on, man.

Yeah, that sounds like a turn-away.

Even so, that’s better than getting slipped a number to a gay hotline like some girl did to me once. God, that was awkward.

ahahahahaha - hence the avatar.

You should never have to ask for a girls number. If a girl likes you and wants you to have her number, she will be sure that you have that number.

Or she’s out of town and is genuinely interested in TGP.

Of the two women that I have been with, neither of them gave me their numbers until I asked. Actually, now that I think about it, I don’t remember giving the second one my number at all, and yet I know that we texted a few times…

And quite frankly, it took me two years to remember my phone number, so I wasn’t going to hold that against her for too long. It’s been long enough now…

Also, she looked so happy when I asked for her number, as if she had been waiting for me to make a move. That added to the 15 to 20 minute conversation we had a month ago (when I should have originally asked her out), where she was also full of smiles and giggles, I am getting a lot of conflicting messages, and I was no good at this game to begin with :frowning:

See what I mean.

What the hell, man! What is wrong with your brain?

I’m not saying she isn’t interested in you. But it is possible that she isn’t. It is possible that she is just…not a bitch. You know, nice to guys she isn’t looking to get with.

No, I mean the second woman I was with didn’t get my number until after I asked her on a date. I just don’t remember trading numbers.

And the new woman has dropped way too many compliments and hints my way for just being polite. Polite women (of which I have known a few) don’t drop the line, “I know I shouldn’t date older men, but I do anyway,” out of nowhere (she is 23, I am 37). It’s all very conflicting in my messed up brain…

dude shes AVOIDING you. you told her the days you’re there, and you haven’t seen her since? she is avoiding going on those days.

and since when could we not double post in the goddamn ladies club

I remember that one girl who seemed interested in me and we always hung out with her brother and his girlfriend.

She waited till after I asked her out to tell me that the guy who was hanging out with us that day was her new boyfriend. That was awkward.

That girl that told me to add her on facebook a while back who never accepted my friend request just changed her relationhip status to single, and then added me

:brow:

In other news, this rather attractive girl I have been trying to ignore was at a recent gathering I attended, and had updated her wardrobe/style and looked totally gorgeous. :frowning:

I am confused

i was sexually assaulted by a dearborn cop yesterday who are known for being huge assholes and doing illegal shit off camera
prob cause of how fierce i look in leopard print pants

Baw, hope you took pics of her and like, totally stalker her… Or not :fffuuu:

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