No, I´m just a really bad at drawing…
EDIT: That´s exactly what I mean, Danson.
No, I´m just a really bad at drawing…
EDIT: That´s exactly what I mean, Danson.
A girl finding out that she is interesting enough for a man to want to draw her picture is rather exciting and alluring.
Yes. Lern 2 draw.
If you insist.
So that also means women like it when you decide to photoshop them, right?
I think girls are more reluctant to being photographed than they are to being drawn with pencil and graphit. Just a guess.
Correct-o-mundo. I hate taking pictures of me cuz I am not as young and beautiful as I once was. But a drawing of me? oh heck yeah I would sit for that.
wohoo! I was right again! :awesome:
I did that it of a friend I liked once it only came off as creepy lol.
OK so big advice needed. I’m incredibly socially awkward. Any relationship I’ve had lasted under a few months. Usually its a fizzle out process where we both lose interest in each other and just split. My biggest problem is that i have HUGE self-worth issues I don’t know how to react to compliments so when a girl flirts with me I have trouble flirting back, because to me I assume that its just an act or she is only being nice, this causes girls to just assume i am gay or a jerk, even if I really think she is attractive and would love to flirt back. I can’t begin to explain other problems like how I tend to attract girls with lots of emotional issues. And how I feel very disconnected to others feelings. one big issue also is with being so picky I tend to over-analyze girls to a point were I can’t even find an appealing girl in my area. HELP
I’m having interesting girl problems again lol.
Part 1: So this girl I like a lot has been obsessed with this other guy. He’s been known for leading girls on and not ever progressing to a relationship, and that’s what’s going on with her. Weird thing is, I first started talking to her only about making her think twice about continuing to go after him, because my friend wanted to be with her. Turns out my friend still sucks at talking with girls so he gave up. But interestingly enough I was able to make her think about it, and since I talked to her we’ve been talking a whole lot, almost every day. When we do talk about the guy, which isn’t too often, she brings it up, and usually it is her being doubtful. Strangely this is really similar to the way I ended up with liz, the flaky girl who dumped her boyfriend repeatedly for me but couldn’t make up her mind as far as complaining about her boyfriend from time to time as she liked me more.
So basically I’m not sure if I should try to go after her, seeing as the last time I did, it ended up with that bizarre love triangle BS. This girl is much more real than liz though, and is genuinely caring. The guy she likes doesn’t deserve someone like her, especially the way he just ignores her. It’s hard to tell if she likes me, because she has a really bubbly personality so it’s hard to tell if she’s being flirty or not.
Part 2: So I totally own at hl2dm as you guys probably already know, and this girl I met on a server a few times decided to add me, so I was like “whatever” and added her. She messaged me once to say hi, we made small talk etc, she had her birthday and I wished her a happy birthday, whatever.
Then like a few days after her birthday she said hi again and said she was hanging with her friends. I just said ok, then she said her friends thought she had a crush on me, but turned out she did. I asked her how she decided to like me so fast since we had only talked like 3 times before, she said she liked how I owned people in game and my picture. Then she started to get a little creepy, saying that she really wanted me and how hot I was etc. I was surprised because she barely knew me and then later that day she fucking asked me out. I was basically like “Holy crap, I barely know you, how can you even like me that fast?” and she was just like “I just want you.” Mind you she had already sent me a picture of herself before she said she liked me, and she was pretty decent looking, one of those girls who could be gorgeous if she wanted to, like arnold’s wife in true lies. Also the kicker is she lives in the UK anyway. So I have no idea how to handle that whole situation.
Seems like all the prospective relationships I’ve had lately have all been extremely convoluted and confusing. :^/
@ perky: Try not to think so much. Instead of flirting, just think of it as telling them what you think about them, how they make you feel, what you like about what they do/how they look. I don’t find myself particularly attractive, maybe because I’m a man, but it feels nice to remind someone of the good things about them.
Dr. Perky is kredeet to socially awkward team.
What is a girlfriend and where can I buy one?
You can buy one in walmart.
If you wanna get to know girls, use this handbook as your primary source of inspiration:
When the confidence level gets low, then a lot of times the self worth tends to go out the door as well. Which is not uncommon mind you. Due to my extended unemployment, I am bout ready to take a blade to mah wrist cuz I just cant seem to get up the gumption to feel worthy of a job.
But back to you, I think what you are needing is a bit of small successes in your life to help remind yourself that you are fun to be around and can enjoy life. Once you stop taking life so seriously or worrying over the small stuff, some of the other things fall in place. I think the only thing I can really advise is to not take everything so seriously and to not worry about it. Daily tell yourself, “this is me and if you dont like it piss off. I enjoy xx and it would be great if you join me but I am not going to cry if you dont”.
Part 1: Make yourself available when she decides what she wants. But if it drags on and on and she cant make a decision of who she likes, move along.
Part 2: Long distance… no thank you.
@ perky: I whole heartedly agree.
Okie dokie…
Eye bleach please…
My friend got dumped, I’m friends with the ex. How do I manage being friends with both?
barrel roll
Stay neutral, or use magic and brainwash them.
If either of you doesn’t want to be friends with you anymore because you’re still friends with the other, then that’s the one you should drop because (s)he’s not a friend.
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