Girl Advise

They are being immature brats right now and are trying to “get the friends” as one would “get the kids”. So being neutral is hard seeing as one or the other will think I’m on their side and the other will read into some obscure thing and interpret is as me fraternizing with the enemy.

I’m afraid it may be both.

Just leave them for the time being then. They are being immature though. I never acted like that when I broke up. And neither did anyone I know.

Drop them both then, friends that “demand” things in order for them to be your friend, aren’t friends.

Tell them: “If you keep trying to draw me into this, you can both suck my dick!” If that doesn’t wake them up, you have lost nothing, because they never really were your friends in the first place.

Naw, keep both as a friend but just be very vague about “Cant hang tonight bro, I have things to take care of at home. Catch you on Sunday tho?” Those THINGS are the other friend coming over to play monopoly with the family.

I haven’t played monopoly in ages.

sounds like they’re both assholes

Either that or 5 year olds.

Sounds risky. If either of them finds out (and they will eventually, maybe even because one rubs it under the others nose), there’ll be hell to pay.

Get drunk and sleep with your friend. Then the same tension will exist in each direction, so it will be easier to balance.

Just cuz a doesnt get along with b doesnt mean c cant be friends with either or one of them.

Just be respectful and dont flaunt how you spend time with the other. If they find out then they are a jerk for expecting you to pick sides.

Breakups don’t have to end your friendship with either party.

A good friend of me and my girlfriend recently had a bad breakup. He cheated on his gf for a few months. She’s ripping im a new one in public and her friends want to kill him.

But we are still very close with either party, regardless of the terrible feelings from either party. The understand the breakup has nothing to do with us.

If your “friends” expect you to pick sides, it’s only to weaponize your allegiance and say “See, I’m a better person because he chose me!” I’ve seen similar situations and motives involving divorcing spouses and their children.

I like this girl and I’m pretty sure she likes me too. We our great friends though. How do I bring up dating without making it totally akward for either of us?

If the feeling seems mutual, just ask her. It’s only awkward if you make it awkward.

^bscly. Trying to stay friends with her and trying to date at the same time never really works out.

https://forums.blackmesasource.com/showpost.php?p=228481&postcount=549

So that girl seems to be starting to like me. She’s really been wanting to hang out with me lately even though she lives a half hour away. :^)

Also as far as dating girls that are your friend, usually they know already that you like them but haven’t said anything because they feel they’d make it awkward too. Sadly enough it’s always up to the man in most cases to man up and put it out there.

So basically just try to put it out there, say you really value the time you spend together in general, but do like her that way as well. Make her feel valued as a friend and as a potential girlfriend, so she can make the decision on what direction your friendship will go without awkwardness.

Imma make my move on that girl because every time there is a silence, she’ll bite her lip sorta and smile at me. I feel perfect but that might change.:fffuuu:

For all that mistake girls who love sex with nymphomaniacs, here’s something to study:

Facts about Nymphomania

Also this:

Also: Types of women who are disaster dates

my problem with girls is that i just worked up the courage to ask them out, then right as i start to talk to them, i freeze, and my mind goes blank, so then i sound like and asshole, and then worst of all she thinks im weird now!!

how do i fix this?

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