Men that are shy…not in my dictionary…but in all seriousness, then she should handle it fine. In the end all guys want the same thing: Sex. It doesn’t make that much of a difference wether he is shy or not. Or do you mean your friend?
She doesn’t want to seem like a whore, but she doesn’t really want to hang out with him. They’re both fairly shy. I don’t know, it’s hard to explain. I told her just show him your tits it’s like failproof but she was like nooo I don’t want to.
He also might be gay.
Tits are the stereotypical way to get us to sex. And it’s definitely NOT failproof. The best way is to just ask him to go on a date. If he’s gay: No chance probably.
sounds like she doesn’t want it that bad, if she’s so nervous about it. You should probably just let her figure out things on her own
seriously, just watch a movie at home, it’s the best setup for this kind of thing
preferably a movie that’s not very interesting in any way
although, if she’s sure she doesn’t want anything more, that should be clear before anything happens, to avoid the dude getting hurt 
I suppose The Apocalypse Opener would work in her case as well? Geewiz… that tactic is getting around!
(not that I approve of it at all. I’m just saying in THIS world…)
I agree with Ballsopt.
Strange, cause you are being the greatest advertiser of this method in this thread (actually, the only advertiser I’ve already seen except for the author of the article himself).
At least I’m not the only one who thinks the idea of having sex with a girl without even knowing her name is not nice 
I could try it in the future for experience sake, though, but I still don’t have the nerve.
EDIT: If that tactic spreads around too much, it will probably stop working with a “That one won’t work on me anymore.”
A little late, but Mr. Shadow, I just thought I’d offer my two cents.
You need to consider a few things before you propose to her:
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If she is truly sorry, she may be going through feelings of remorse right now, and trying to be extra nice to you. You don’t want her to marry you out of pity, you want her to marry you because she loves you, so I would wait until the whole situation calms down some more and she forgets about what happened.
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She cheated pretty recently. Even if she is truly sorry, do you know why she cheated, and if so, can you be sure it won’t happen again? Like, is it something you did, or did a very charming guy come her way? You have to solve whatever caused her to cheat in the first place before you propose.
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The two things I stated above are assuming that she is truly very sorry. What if she isn’t? Watch her behavior a bit. This shouldn’t come as a surprise to you or anything, but its obviously can’t hurt to wait. The worst that could happen is you wait a bit, it seems like everything’s alright, you marry her/propose, and it doesn’t work out. Say you wait a month or something, keeping marriage in the back of your head all the while, and you guys break up down the road; that’s good. You just stopped yourself from making what could have been a big mistake.
There’s no rush, especially in something thats supposed to [b]last the rest of your life[/b]. You need to put yourself in her shoes, and see how she’d feel about waking up with you every single day of the next 50+ years.
Let me know what you decide, and how it goes.
Fancy Pants, let me tell you a story. I hope you are sitting, because it is slightly longer than two sentences.
There once was a man whose life was in turmoil. Throwing up his hands in despair, he went on a quest to find an old wise man who was rumored to be across the tumultuous sea and up a mountain, seated by an old weeping willow tree, gazing out at the land as it stretched below him. The man b
The point of the story being: alcohol.
Thank you, I think.
poor psyborg, I think he broke. 
Hey, it’s valid advice.
EDIT: And a great story, just without a complete third act.
LOL
Thank you. And I know she is truly sorry. I’ve dealt with cheaters before, and none of them admitted it. Pretty much all of my previous relationships ended with cheating. I think the point where a girl admits it, is where she is truly sorry. Thanks for the tips though. I think I can wait a month.
I have a tale to relate on this matter. It is not from me, but I read it in a book about break-ups once. There was a girl who was very happy with her boyfriend, very much in love with him and convinced she wanted to marry him soon. If he wouldn’t propose, she certainly would. She was determined never to do anything bad to him and to stay faithful to him till the end of her life.
One evening, a bunch of girlfriends she hadn’t seen in a while took her out to a salsa bar for a dancing night. A fairly attractive Brazilian dancer started hitting on her, and first she refused, but after a few drinks she accepted his offer to dance, because she thought that maybe this was the only thing he wanted.
He was such a good dancer that she got completely carried away in the mood of it. The alcohol in her blood, the sound of the music, his passionate motions, his odor and the whole atmosphere of the dance club got her into some state of a trance. She not only got high, she also got aroused. When she noticed his arousal as well, she willingly let herself be lead onto the toilet, where they fucked like rabbits. It was not until after the orgasm that she woke up from her trance and was shocked by what she had done. She was completely devastated. Her sex life with her boyfriend had never left her unsatisfied or anything. She couldn’t explain to herself what had happened.
She fled the club and rushed home to immediately confess to her boyfriend and beg for his mercy. He, however, suffered so much from this humiliation and broken trust, that he could not forgive her. He broke up with her the same evening, and went to sleep at a buddy’s place. He came to take his stuff a couple of days later, and that was the last she saw or heard of him.
As far as I know the book I have it from, this story must actually be true (they are a collection of stories sent to a counselling website and allowed for publishing).
So, there is a possibility that sometimes people cheat on their beloved ones just because they lose control over themselves and get caught up in the moment. This, to my knowledge, can happen to anyone. Even if the relationship leaves nothing to desire (which is nearly impossible).
EDIT: Some of you might want to know what became of the girl. She was in a near suicidal state when she sent in her story to that counselling website, but according to the book she was encouraged to start a therapy soon afterwards and managed to get a hold of herself again. Her self respect, though, will be hard to reaquire. Last time she posted on their forums before the book was published, she was still mourning her loss of such a wonderful boyfriend.
Thought that might be interesting to some guys here.
It certainly is, I’ll have to remember that for the future. It might prevent some serious blows to my self-esteem.
a cool and successful idea is thinking of women as some kind of weird alien species and blaming all your problems on their perceived reluctance to sleep with ya
Just move to California and become an internet porn director. A little advertising, your own pay-site, a little amount of money to start paying the chicks that come by, and voilá, you are in Happy Land.
Hot 18year-olds are going to willingly come by and let themselves be filmed while gagging on your cock and taking it in every opening their body provides. Even if you look like shit and smell like a lama.
At least that’s the impression I have gotten from diverse lonely nights on the interwebz. Yeah I know I’m a wreck. Someone’s gotta be.
this week i chose playing red dead redemption all night instead of sex on at least one occasion (no regrets)(google building 7)