All of the above guys.
it’s not a kill two birds with one stone situation, if your still obsessed with her, fucking her would make it worse. the best thing to do, is to go out and look for a girl who looks like her, and giver a anger fuck.
Sorry for the bluntness catz, and other ladies in the thread.
P.S. Anger fuck doesn’t imply aggression, just the releasing of frustrations.
Murder. You can’t be obsessed with something that doesn’t exist.
Ah, but dead people exist!
Nonsense. You’re just not murdering them hard enough.
Yeah liquify their dead bodies in acid, then vaporize the liquid, then breathe them in and fart them out.
Seriously, what the fuck are we talking about here? This is supposed to be GURL ADVISE!
Well, here’s some advise FOR the gurls. What the good ol’ prophet of the modern world, Mr. George Carlin, had to say about men: Basically, they are full of shit
He also had something to say about women, of course.
And about men AND women in comparison, of course.
:whimper: My intentions for this thread were pure I tell you!
Oh yes men are the problem, because we are all a bunch of natural rapists and assholes.
There, there, sweetheart. We know you meant well. It’s not your fault this thread went downhill. It’s the testosterone. You had nothing to do with this.
[COLOR=‘SlateGray’]patting Catz’ back, giving her a freshly heated up cup of hot chocolate to fight off the sudden depression
:s ip: much better.
Someone quick… ask a girly advice question.
I hate people, is this affecting my chances?
nvm 
Don’t worry Catz, this is what happens to a good thread after 800+ posts and the subject is exhausted 
Well, the topic is clearly not exhausted yet, we boys have just grown too insecure to ask any more, because the testosterone level around this thread has risen through the roof.
Ummm not all…
/ Notice the Sig
i have an issue, how do you not flirt with girls? making girls giggle and smile is inherent in my personality, i’m a funny charismatic guy. lately though, my flirting has gotten me into trouble. whether it be a waitress or some angry guy’s girlfriend, i have a habit of, i don’t know the word, womanizing? don’t get me wrong, i’m no Don Juan, but i need to find the off switch. I don’t even try to flirt, its just the way is speak, the way i look at women, my devilish grin, and my over the top personality. In the past month I’ve gotten into two fights becuase of it, had a really good friend be mad at me for a while ( becuase i ‘flirt too much’ with the girl he loves, and she wants to have sex) and also had my best friends girlfriend fall in love with me, and I’ve been avoiding the ramifications of this for the past three weeks.
I know it’s an absurd question, but i don’t know what to do.
That’s a real issue. Pardon me if I wish I had some of that power, though. But I can clearly see how that can become quite a problem.
Grow a beard and go on a diet of salmon sandwiches for three weeks.
It’ll work.
Well, People will generally violate their values for what they think is a need. If we start with this platform, the thing to sort out is what your “needs” are, compared to your values. (And of course, intent)
That said, the two do not always have to be in conflict.
If you are flirting because on some level you gain a sense of power, (As in, I can get a gal to flirt with me, even though she shouldn’t/is likely not interested but she did anyways) then that is not so helpful to finding a balance between needs and values.
If you are flirting because you want to validate your own sense of self (as in, I can get the gals to laugh therfore I am desired) then it is a one sided deal.
If you flirt because you want to jump pretty much any chick’s bones that you see, (Beyond the nomal - Oh look, a chick… sort of thing) then that is certainly a problem - Seek help.
Why? For your future of course. Relationships that bring the most saticifation in the long haul, are the ones where we connect with out partners on a “Social/emotional” level. - The horizontal bop is fine and all - but if you only interested in the BIg O, then deal with that now - If you fail to sort it that out, then you are in for one bumpy road. Besides, a person who you connect with will be way more likely to want to have sex with you, than they will if they feel they are only being used as a Mo-Joe filter… (Just sayin’)
If on the other hand, you are flirting becuase it is fun for both, there ARE boundaries, there are no “Games” going on, no using the other person… Respect for the significant other (should there be one) and the flirting is reasonable…
What’s wrong with flirting?
Nobody really answered my question. Some guy just said to go find a girl that looks like my ex and rape her. I’m not sure if that’s the best idea.