that’s why you make her keep a jar and a funnel[COLOR=‘Black’]* in her purse
[COLOR=‘Black’]* obscure Rat Race reference
LOL
The comments of Catz and DasonDelta just made me remember one thing I hate about women. You gurls think you are such a superior race that you can only possibly cheat on your partners if they are not giving you enough attention, or as a revenge. But how is that so if you can be considering to cheat when you are on a date? To me, if the problem is lack of attention, either you are trying to call your partner’s attention during the date or you just can’t stand you boyfriend ignoring you and want the date to be over as soon as possible.
I’m calling your bluff now in the name of all men that is as tired of getting generalized as cheap bastards as me 
inb4 men cheat more than women: true, but does not invalidate my point.
Brother, according to recent research, women are more likely to cheat than are men - According the research…
I find the whole thing of up close and personal relationships too much of a hassle really. Friends are a good thing in either gender, but so many of the “Close” relationships seem to more about power stuggles than building a life together… (Shrugs) Just sayin’
I had an ex who cheated on me once.
I ate her liver, with some fava beans, and a nice Chianti.
1 hour to get ready for school I mend, yea indeed for some girls I know it takes longer then 2 hours, some are deciding the same day already what to put on that night.
Sorry I missed your question. It depends. If a woman is not feeling nurtured or loved, she will be suspicious of all women that come within 100 feet of the guy. Regardless of how innocent or guilty the guy is. But if the guy regularly pays attention and looks for ways to make her happy (even the small things count) then she will not be suspicious. Remember folks, if you want green grass, water it and care for it. If you want a thorny and barren landscape, leave it alone. The same goes true of a relationship.
First off, who in their right mind would not be suspicious if their date disappeared for more than an hour? I mean REALLY. I know I certainly would! And why are you putting a 50% on that? I didnt. Actually I said most of the time they are simply gossiping. But once in a while you will find a selfish brat that is scoping the catalog or is creating a secret.
Men cheat too tho. And you hit the nail on the head… a lot of what a woman does is for attention. Personally, I think any woman that deserts their date for more than an hour without a valid reason should be kicked to the curb. If she says the line to the bathroom was long and you look over and don’t see a line coming out the door, be suspicious.
Ah yes. The power struggle. Too many times I see relationships built on the power of who won the last fight. Gee wiz people, these are supposed to be the loves of your life! Your all in all. Your mate. Your dream woman/man. Fight fair and express how you feel and dont be afraid to say you are wrong but you still feel it. You would be surprised how fulfilling a relationship can feel.
This is for women in general. Catz, I hate to contradict you in any way, but MY girl, is suspicious of every chick that comes within that little circle, she drills me about every woman I know and talk to.
Mind you, I don’t mind it, in fact I think it’s amusing.
It doesn’t bother me, but not all women are like that. And I do nurture her in every little way I can, it just turns out that something out of her history… I’ll explain below.
Agreed. Mine doesn’t normally take that long, maybe 20 minutes at the most adding in makeup, etc. She sometimes calls me to ask what to wear to the date, and I always repeat myself: “Wear what you think is best.”
She rarely takes that long in the bathroom, and yes I would be suspicious if she did do that.
There are other times where she drives me up the wall, in more ways than one. Guys pro tip: Having a hot girlfriend and she knows that she is, is both a blessing and a curse.
Yeah, I would. Usually it’s one sided; she jealously guards me from any woman who she thinks would take me away from her. I sometimes get jealous but usually I let it slide with both her and the guy.
As for the reason she jealously guards me: Her biological father cheated on her mother and in fact abused her mother and older sister when she was young. He eventually left out of the picture.
He’s camping out somewhere in Mexico, he pissed off the drug cartels, so he’s laying low if not dead, as far as I know. God I hope the fucker’s dead, I would LOVE to get my hands on him and rip him limb from limb.
It sometimes comes down to that. Rarely does though, I DO say she’s wrong, and she plays the “I’m right you’re wrong” card, I still say “Okay, I still think you’re wrong” and then the same topic continues for the next… hour maybe?
My favorite of these stories is when we first started dating. She use to be obsessed with another guy, who was a friend of mine, I eventually got her dislodged and hooked to my hook. Anyway, she would say and I quote:
Her:“I think we should break up.”
Me: “No.”
Her: smile “But --”
Me: straight face “No.”
Her: giggle “I thought this was a two sided decision?”
Me: smile “It is, but in this case I’m revoking your right to that decision.”
Her:puppy face “Please?”
Me: shakes head no “No. And that won’t work on me.”
She’ll give up till the next day. Then the whole process starts over. Usually we get a kick out of it when we talk about it, she plans on tellin’ our kids about it. So far this relationship I have is solidified, I plan on proposing to her later this summer as a birthday present.
Sounds like you have the situation well in hand. =D
i’m dying of awesomeness :awesome:
You guys need to see the movie “Nothing to lose”. The opening scene reminds me of your cute bicker. =-)
I do and love every little bit of it. 
As I said, just saying what I’ve had so far.
The reason I say that having a hottie for a girlfriend/wife is both a blessing and a curse is that sometimes when the guy REALLY wants it she’ll say no at the last second.
Drives me up the wall half the time, especially when I say “no don’t do that” she grabs my… sensitive area anyway. Occasionally I have to pin her to the bed to get her to stop.
So what advice can you offer a guy who’s looking to move on ASAP?
I had a dream where I imagined a girl that I really like chatting with me and she undressed herself in the middle of us talking, and now, I feel as though as I don’t feel as attracted to her as I did before 
. What exactly should I get from my dream or should i just ignore it out-right? (Though I’m starting to like her more and more again).
P.s. I decided I might as well post it here since i don’t want to make another thread for a tiny subject.
P.p.s. I’m an excelent writer, but I’m having trouble trying to word my post so that it does seem as awkward as it really is.
Why does the girl I like have to fall in love with my best mate, who’s going out with someone else, then cover everything up and try to set the blame of everything on me?
bullshit/bollocks.
This belongs in the rage thread, but whatever.
Hmm, okay, so that girl that I told that I liked her is on my Facebook, but we don’t really have any conversations going on. Besides the occasional statuses that only we talk about. What should I do, if anything?
Found the problem.
I say a man needs to remember that once in a while you need to f*** a lady and make love to a whore.
You haven’t really given us a whole lot of info here. Move on? As in breaking up with a gal? Are you desperate to get rid of her? Is there someone else and you need to shake the baggage? Are you already broken up and need to find the quick way to get over her? Are you looking for revenge in order to move on, or are you just trying to stay one step ahead of hanging yourself?
Take a moment while you think on how to respond
I am not a dreamologist (or whatever) but my amateur take on that dream is that you feel this girl offers her real self. She does not hide, she does not play games. This may or may not be true, but this is how you may percieve her. If you find it is true, PURSUE HER! It is rare to find a gal that does not play games.
Belongs in the rage thread. But I am still sorry for the unrequited “like” going on. =(
You have falling in “like” with a girl’s outside. Find someone where you can fall in “like” with their inside. If you prefer it to be this one, then stop relying on facebook to do your relationship and take it to the next level and do the relationship IRL. Oh the joys of a first hand hold, first kiss, first movie, first ice cream share, first dance, first romantic star gaze. DOOOOO EEEETTTT!!! =-D
Well I know the girl in real life as well, it’s just that we have most of our “conversations” on Facebook, and I realize that’s bad, but I don’t really know what to do in a proper first date. I don’t really have much experience in the dating field >.<
Not much experience? The only way to get it is to do it. The last thing you wanna be is a 30 something guy that has been on too few dates. (had a lengthly convo with a guy that regretted SO hard sitting and waiting for it to happen rather than just going out and grabbing it good or bad.)
I say again… DOOOO EEEEEET!
This is the time for you to enjoy the game. Not be on the sidelines wishing you were in the game. Ups? Downs? Failures? Sucesses? Dating is all of those things. Embrace it and be fearless!
Take her on a ride of her life and don’t be afraid of a couple of screw ups! Either way, don’t be afraid to impact her life!