WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS THREAD.
+noncaps.
Sounds to me like you need some new friends. People aren’t really as scary as they seem. At the core, we’re all actually pretty damn similar and the more people you meet, the more clear that becomes. People are all insecure, wary, paranoid and self-obsessed to a degree. It is how we deal with this that sets us apart.
People put up barriers to protect themselves, and naturally those barriers push people away.
Relax, chill out, get out here and have some fun. Be genuine and honest (and this does NOT means spilling your heart out right after you meet someone) about who you are, and don’t come off as needy, desperate or in need of a crutch. Other people will do the same in turn.
Life is short, and it can be a lot of fun. So remember that and just enjoy it. Shit happens. So does awesome stuff.
I’m afraid that’s just personal opinion Catz. I know for a fact my gf loves that sort of thing. 
On topic: How suspicious are women of other women their partner knows? (what? I felt like this topic needed some serious)
Update: Looks like she’s going to stay single for a while and figure out her priorities.
Did you originally tell her to piss off or did you tell her you wanted to try again?
Wildhound, you copycat, you just copy-and-pasted what I sad 
lol wut?
No, seriously, I lol’d a lot when I read it. This is the wonderful world of Internetz: you can be whoever you want to be 
Refer to Wildhound’s post. My post might or not sound like his, but what he said is what I tried to say.
I have had issues with talking to people my entire life basically. Actually, I still have, but I am, for the first time of my life, learning to deal with them. I am the living proof that nerds are also humans, they just need to understand that. BTW, don’t believe in that show “The Big Bang Theory”, that is just a (funny) pack of bullshit probably written by someone who understand nothing about nerds.
I thought I was inferior when it comes to people, that there should be problem with me. But actually thinking that there was a problem was my worst problem. I thought I had to change myself to be able to have relationships, that I had to learn to lie, or fake, come up with stories, like others do. Well, I just can’t. The problem is you just can’t change who you are, but you can change what you do, the way you deal with the problems. We are not machines that can be opened to change our hardware, we can’t even change our software. It’s firmware, it comes that way from factory and crashes with a blue screen if you try changing it. All you can do is change parameters and create plugins, and it is very flexible in that respect
I think the golden tip is: do you see that girl that avoids even looking at you? Or that other one who walks with her nose up? Or the girl next to her that is wearing vulgar clothes? Forget about them, they don’t like you. I don’t know about you, but I don’t like them either. Leave those for the bad guys.
But keep your eyes open. At some point there will be other girls coming from there, the ones who look more intelligent, mature, sensitive, fragile, meaningful girls, the complete opposite of vulgar. But they just won’t notice you if you look down.
Beauty and intelligence is the perfect combination in a girl
Maybe the reason I find so many of those is because I study in a very good university? Those are not rare around here Yet I still have many problems trying to talking to them :[ It takes time…
Hehe, sorry, just read it now. I originally only read the first two pages of the thread and this one.
I think it’s an important thing to say though because a lot of people don’t realise it. Some people can become very introverted thinking they are different, or weird, or unlovable. Where in fact, it is only thinking that which makes it so.
Approaching 7 billion people out there now. Even if you only ever had a chance with one in a hundred women, that leaves over 35 million of them to choose from.
The weird creepy equivalent is straight men who secretly want to watch you do it with your GF.
But those you should be able to tell a mile off by them having a hand in their pocket 24/7 and a slight strained expression on their faces.
Thank you, that was very informative. 
I was kidding, I agree with you here 100%.
:what: Bad math detected.
(I guess you were thinking one in two hundred? Nevermind, it happens. )
EDIT: :fffuuu: I can’t believe I was so distracted to make fun of a mistake actually committing a mistake. You did the math right.
Bad, bad mathematician. 
Holy hell I lol’d. A lot.
How is it Physically and Mentally plausible for you girls to stay in the bathroom for over an hour?
I don’t need longer then 5 minutes and then I’m happy that I’m done.
Also another question, here in Europe (The Netherlands) and also in America girls go to the toilet together, why exactly?
to make fun of your weird little ddick in private…
lmao
I spend as little time as possible in the bathroom. And I think it’s creepy as hell when people try to come in the bathroom with me.
Well that’s different, at least they don’t try to be friends with you and are straight up with what they want.
An hour in the bathroom? I assume you are talking about getting ready for a date or to go out?
- Wash / dry / style hair = 55 minutes
- Put on makeup = MINIMUM 12 minutes
- Practice saying “Buzz off” = 3 minutes
- Picking out clothes to wear = 34 minutes
- Discarding former choice cuz you dont have the right shoes = 2 minutes
- Picking out clothes and shoes to wear = 35 minutes
- Trading out purses so all your needed stuff is in the purse for the night = 4 minutes
hrm… I take WAY longer than an hour. Whoever you are dating that only takes an hour … keep her~!
If you are talking about going out for the night and your girlfriend ditches you for the bathroom for an hour… She has done one of the following:
- Scoping the joint for a new boy toy.
- Gossiping with her girlfriends about: / her job / her ex-boyfriend / random person / the horrible outfit the girls next to your table are dressed / you.
- Found a new boy toy and had sex with him in the (insert random place here) before circling round back to you.
- Has a bowel problem.
Most of the time it is point number 2. If so, you have nothing to worry about. It is a woman’s way of letting off steam without making the beloved boyfriend suffer. Concider yourself lucky and give her a big wet kiss when she gets back.
From most girls at my school, it’s number 3.
Catz ignored me, lol.
Absolutely nothing on that first list is even KIND of accurate. It takes me 20 minutes, MAYBE a half hour to get ready for anything. Including hair, makeup, clothes, everything.
Also the last time I want to gossip is while I’m taking a shit.
I can’t argue with the bowel problems or having sex, though!
Catz, you are saying that if our girlfriend leaves for the bathroom during a date and takes longer than an hour, in 50 % of all cases she is either attempting to cheat on us or having fun doing so.
If this was representative of all women, why should we even bother trying to get one? Saving money for prostitutes seems to be a legit alternative right now.
EDIT: Fancy Pants seems to be an exception, though. That gives me a slight hint of hope. Not for me, of course. But for all those other men out there who still have a chance to get a girl - and a life.