Ask a Homosexual

Jesus H. Christ. Your mother cried?! That must have been awful. Dang, you poor guy.

A couple more questions:

Though your parents don’t talk about it, do you wish they do or have you ever tried to talk about it again with them? If you did, what happened?

How did people react when you first kissed a guy in public?

Ironically, a very flamboyant gay guy lives opposite my room in halls, and his name is Oliver. Obviously he didn’t do the “Hi, I’m a fag” part.

I wish they did, it would make things a lot more comfortable. The issue is just really, really awkward and they kind of dodge around it, thinking that I’m really overly sensitive about it. They just don’t understand, and until the issue comes up again and we’re FORCED to deal with it, I’m really going to try and avoid further grief.

I was pleasantly surprised, girls were like “hot” and guys were like “woah”. Mostly at parties though, I’ve never really gotten much opportunity to actually BE legitimately affectionate to someone, sadly.

He just might. :wink:

Q: Do you feel that intolerance to gay people is on the same level as racism?

In this day and age, yes.

For instance, “faggot” is widely accepted all over the place whereas insults like “nigger” and “kike” are considered taboo. Gay people get discrimination from just about every side, and it’s a crime punishable by death in many countries to be gay. As it’s an invisible minority, it’s more difficult for gay people to band together to look out for one another. Hence the reason why a lot of people are perpetuating gay stereotypes: It makes it easy to identify gay people and thus turning an invisible minority into a visible one. It provides a lot of people with a sense of security.

You don’t see people getting called “black” or “asian” when they’re clearly not, as an insult. Most visible minorities don’t have people lining up to protest their rights to get married or adopt children. You don’t have people out there trying to “convert” you to normalcy. It’s not like parents can cast you out for being a certain race, because they are too. So not only do gays face discrimination from outside sources, but also often times within their own families. I’m lucky I grew up here in Canada because if I were to grow up in the Southern US I can’t even imagine how hellish it would be. It’s even hard to deal with the level of discrimination HERE. In fucking Toronto!

In it’s way, it’s a very good thing that “faggot” is such a generalised term now, as it means that people will gradually stop associating it with homosexuality.

I have a gay friend in Texas.:fffuuu:

Q: Do you think that the homophobia will ever decrease to the point it’s generally looked down upon?

Not to homosexuals.

In some parts of the world, in my lifetime, yes. Other places, no. Look at a lot of Third World countries, or even the “Muslim World”. Socially, these places are a few hundred years behind and I sincerely doubt discrimination, especially of homosexuals, will ever end. Especially considering it’s part of a huge theocratic doctrine to kill gays.

Anal sex is outright disgusting no matter who’s doing it. There are just some places where your dick isn’t supposed to go.

EDIT: :fffuuu: this was in reply to some post about a page back.

Some people might find your preference of hole disgusting too you know.

Funny how it can go there anyways, eh?

If you find it disgusting… don’t do it?

Well, it sure fits in there pretty good.

Depends on how far you are in the relationship. It’s not exactly something you can do all that spontaneously. A lot of people see homosexual relationships as non-stop sex. Which is really weird.

the rectum is rather penis shaped… :awesome:

Wouldn’t non stop sex make you lucky?

Yeap.

I honestly have never read that, I know I couldn’t sustain a relationship for longer than a few months before I let someone in my pants :wink: .

But in my experience, gay relationships tend to require a little more easing in.

When time goes by that all you have is your hand, thinking like that is ideal. But when you start having sex/oral even once a day for a month or more, sometimes you want to slow down.

Ok, I could probably live with oral once or more a day for a much longer time. :slight_smile:

I wouldn’t doubt it.

Are you serious? It’s their freaking poop chute. It’s like sticking your dick into raw sewage. Well not really, but almost. I wouldn’t want be anywhere near anyone’s asshole. Closest you’ll find me is at the vagina :3

Because a vagina is so much cleaner and more hygienic, amirite?

Owned.

Oh, so you prefer all the bacteria that live in human excrement?

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