yes I was and am not denying it, just because I didn’t experience break ups, thank god? it doesn’t mean that I don’t know how it feels, you know that what I said earlier happens on a daily basis, but ya I was cynical to certain point 
but then it backfired
shut up you god damn retard.
Ok maybe post something constructive then.
That was not what I was trying to imply at all.
shhh, just go with it.
you did something right by accident.
Oh, whoops. My bad. ^^;;
I know you probably won’t see this, but god damn
this is your magnum opus of stupidity, and there’s a lot of competition.
Yeah, I saw the arrow. I didn’t mentally add
^ this
It’s how I generally do it, but I get it now. Different keystrokes for different folks. Thanks!
making fun of shadi is making me laugh so thats a start
Glad to hear it.
Should we dredge the internet looking for stupid humor flash videos?
If so, I’ll start things off.
Bit of good ol’ Raminator justice.
Nah, he’ll just feel special again because he’ll think he’s been turned into a meme.
Well played, m’am.
I love you, Reb.
Oh and fancy, wb
thanks
shadi is a poop head and smells like farts, tbh
Wwwwaawww, I miss the morning trash talk 
Anyway, breakups can only be healed by time. Also did he tell you why he broke up ?
he just said he had too much going on. he kissed me before i left. i wanted him to but now i wish he didn’t, ive got no closure. he promised we can talk again in two weeks though but im not expecting much
I just had a 3 year relationship end. It blows, but what can you do? If he wants to move on then you need to let him and you need to do the same yourself.
Don’t humiliate yourself by begging him to come back to you. It’s over and you need to accept that. The sooner you accept that it is finished between the both of you, the sooner you can start to recover.
Everyone has different ways of dealing with breakups. One method which has worked for me is to remove them from facebook, delete their phone number, delete their email…etc.
Otherwise I end up facebook stalking and just drive myself crazy. The last thing you want to do is see a picture of your ex and some new girl/guy on facebook. Removing means of contacting them prevents any drunken or emotional messages which you’ll very quickly regret. There’s nothing worse than sending some mushy email to an ex and then feeling like a total moron the next morning.
How can you say that you’ve got no closure? He told you why you were breaking up and he kissed you before he left. That’s pretty much closure.
Obviously it’s not the closure you want, but I suspect that ANYTHING he did wouldn’t be enough for you. Which is understandable because you are hurt.
As hard as it is, you need to keep things in perspective.
If you talk in two weeks what are you expecting to come out of it? If you are expecting that he’ll change his mind and you’ll get back together, you are going to be very disappointed. As horrible as this sounds, abandon hope.
The breakup I had wasn’t even a bad one. We didn’t fall out of love or anything, I just had to relocate countries and it was just logistically impracticable to keep a relationship going. But all the same, it’s over.
You need to ask yourself if talking to him in two weeks is going to make anything better inside you. Will you get the closure you need? (probably not) Will you get any answers to questions you have? (probably not) Will you feel better at all or just worse?
It will take time to heal your wounds and I know that having people say shit like “there’s plenty of fish in the sea” really doesn’t help. But you’ll survive.
It’s not a wound…it’s just a scar for tomorrow.
i don’t expect anything to happen and i know if i do it’s just setting myself up for a harder fall. but that’s when he said we could start talking again, and he promised we would. so i guess it’s something. i just don’t know what to do until then