Worst breakups.

No, but from what I understand, you generally don’t get heartbroken by someone ending a friendship, acquaintance, business partnership, etc.

Sure it might be upsetting, but not really heartbreaking.

Also, those are the kinds of relations discussed in this thread, so yeah, my message stands.

It doesn’t actually mean I’m completely emotionless, you know, I just lack certain specific feelings.

… Though that does still sound kinda cool.

Wait!.. There’s a difference between a whiny pussy and a faggy goth kid?

:smiley:

Kinship, or lifelong companionship?

How would you know that?

You’re entitled to your opinion, certainly. But you’re in this thread giving your opinions of heartbreak when you’ve never actually experienced it, and comparing it to other experiences you’ve likely not yet had.

It’s a bit like me arguing about the experience of giving birth with a bunch of mothers. I might be able to fake it a little by guessing at a few things correctly or repeating some things I’ve heard from others, but essentially, I just wouldn’t know what I was talking about in any real way.

Yeah, it’s not really about my opinion. I’m just going on definitions here, and the situations I’ve most commonly seen the word being applied to.

Though I guess I could have misinterpreted usage in translating what I know of the Swedish equivalent. You’re probably right, let’s just drop that point and go with my other reasoning:

In life, we play multiple roles depending on context. In some contexts, we play the role of making the statements. In other contexts, we play the role of asking the questions. In some contexts we talk, in others, we listen. In some contexts, we are the experienced, and in others, the inexperienced.

You seem to want to debate about heartbreak, but it’s already clear that you haven’t yet experienced it. So, I really don’t see why you would think this is the proper role for you in this context.

I have no desire to start a debate. I just made an off-hand comment, people responded, and I followed up on it.
I already said that I made a mistake, and that the matter could be dropped.

I guess I can see your reasoning, though, and it’s probably just a result of me needing to explain myself, like I am now, things escalating from there because everyone involved feels a need to comment, for whatever reason.

Maybe it’s all just us misunderstanding what the other is trying to convey.

So, yeah, we should probably just stop this.

To be clear, I’m not saying that there’s anything wrong with debate at all. But sometimes that’s just not the role we should play in a specific context.

Also, I think that you’re a nice, intelligent person, and that your comments are very thoughtful.

That is crazy… and I don’t really know what to say to that. :fffuuu:

So because you have never been or seen two people that have in fact, found TRUE LOVE… you have decided it does not exist?

Actually I do have a question. Since you don’t have romantic relationships, you would simply have interpersonal ones. Have you ever had a painful parting with someone? You must have a non-romantic example. It would certainly be different than the current examples…

his cousin suggested fucking another guy. i did but i just feel worse.

I was going to respond to the responders of my story, but I don’t think any of this is helping you, Fancy.

yeah I agree with robot.

Never the answer, but that’s just my humble opinion.

yeah… that’s never the answer to that kind of situation…

and now new guy is weird and clingy and im still hung up on that stupid motherfucking asshole

Cue “new guy” starting a thread here being heartbroken by a girl after only being used for sex.

Also, I’m quite shocked that having sex one night with another guy didn’t negate the pain of the end of your 200 days & night old relationship. I mean come on, where’s the logic :expressionless:

It IS what practically everyone told me to do…

I rebounded to a short term cuddle buddy. :stuck_out_tongue:
but that’s just me.
Now I need another one. haha

Yeah, rebounds are one of the worst possible things you can do for that. I doubt the person rebounded upon would particularly appreciate being used in such a way either.

One of my friends went fuck buddies with someone after his breakup as well, dunno if that really helps because I’m not very well versed in that particular subject.

Sure, I’m not judging the fact she did it.
I’m judging people for thinking it would have actually helped.

This.

In a way, in the eyes of that “new guy” Fancy used for rebound sex, she is the one who’s the motherfucking asshole. How ironic :smiley:

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