“Non-videogame??”
LOL WAT? 
Actually, it depends on what generation you are. Back in the day, "RPG"s were games in which you played a role. These roles were typically adventurers exploring fictional locations. Somebody set apart from the normal everyday ‘you’. The term was used to describe games other then Tetris, Pac-Man, Pachinko, etc. Typically, these ROLE-playing games involved fictional places and atypical settings. Which leads to the common fantasy settings of what today’s gamers describe as RPGs.
Other games like Zork were written in such a fashion that you could play a role; you could be whomever you wanted to be, even yourself. The games were written so that you could define that “role” however you wanted. Think Dungeons and Dragons. Eventually down the road around the Final Fantasy age, many of these ROLE-playing games introduced identity building, stat boosting, skill learning and character growth. Since most RPGs (as defined in those days) used similar game structures, the term RPG became a muddied, misappropriated acronym used to describe nothing more than “stat building”…regardless of the game’s player-characters role.
i say “stat building” because no amount of skill learning, money collecting, prize earning or XP increasing can really define one’s “role”, be it in a videogame, work of fiction or real life. The way you act, the way you talk, the type of person you are and your history are what define your characters’ role. Not how many hitpoints your battleaxe can muster.
it just so happens that yesterday, a friend and i had a debate over this topic. i could go on forever, but it really all boils down to is how your generation defines it. Today’s popular definition isn’t even close to what the original term meant. i compared it with words like “liberal” and its generalized political label and “Muslim” and its immediate association with terrorism. Both words have totally ass-backwards definitions in today’s usage.
And you know what else drives me nut? :meh:
People who say, “i couldn’t care less” and/or can’t use “ironic” in proper context?
-Kawai Tei-