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It would get me off sooo YES.

Only if you are with a squirrel…

His girlfriend cheated on him, went to polish some other guy’s cock not a month ago. She wasn’t dedicated, she didn’t make him happy, she didn’t sacrifice anything but her own dignity. And now, because she admits she cheated on him, he thinks/hopes that she’s really sorry and he wants to propose?

Am I seriously the only one seeing that this has a very high chance of heading for disaster? Sure, she might actually be sorry, but if it was me, I’d wait quite a long time to find out whether she really is sorry. Like, be together for another year or so, see if she starts acting weird, silent and distant again. Not rush a proposal out of the door in the foolish hope that an engagement will bond her to him. This whole idea is as idiotic as trying to have a baby to save a marriage (but the result doesn’t involve a human life, so kudos for that).

I’ve been over this in other threads. Apathy is a blessing. I’m not a loner, I have plenty of friends. I’m just too selfish to actually share my life and resources with someone based on a trivial thing called “love”.

cool story, spock.

now if you don’t mind, us humans are going to go enjoy life and each other now.

I hear Vodka-olives stuffed with bleu-cheese are a source of steady romance.
Cranberry sounds like the kind of taste she would regret in the morning.

I’ve gotta agree with Bolteh on this. Not on the loner apathy thing mind you, I’m a pretty friendly person (at least I’ve been told so :stuck_out_tongue: ). But… saying a guy has to sacrifice for his girlfriend, dedicate to her and that he has to prove her something when she cheated on him no less than a handful of weeks ago simply doesn’t make sense. It’s like someone mugging you and then expecting you to apologize to them.

If there’s someone who has to sacrifice something or prove anything it’s her and not him. Even by forgiving her like that he has already proved to be more committed than most, and though I can’t speak for Shadow, I’d wait at least a few months before jumping into such a huge decision.

I thought marriage was about commitment and love, and not about proving anything.

You can’t really know if she isn’t dedicated, you can’t base it in one single fact. Mr Shadow likes her, which means either she is dedicated and shows him her love and makes him happy for a long time, or he is just plain ignorant. He gave no signs of the latter, so I assumed the former.

No, you are not. He has a high chance of failing. But that actually isn’t the point I was fighting against. You already made that clear, and Shadow (among many others) already didn’t accept it. So I believe you should just hope that he thought this through, and that he has great reasons to believe it is going to work out, or at least stop insisting endlessly on this subject.

I didn’t imply you have only a few friends. That would be hypocritical because I have few friends. And, yes, I should probably have more, or at least have more colleagues or buddies, or talk more to my friends, but that is a whole other story. However, you might have friends and family and still feel lonely, for not being close enough to them, or for not having enough courage to share your deceptions, to cry on someone’s shoulder.

I’m not trying to imply anything with this, but isn’t your apathy just a defensive reaction on something bad that happened in your life and made you lose faith on… idk, friendship, humanity? This is sincere question, made from personal experience. Because you seem to try to convince everyone so bad your apathy is a good thing that I have the impression you are just trying to convince yourself.

There was a time in my life where I was apathetic, I just wanted to rebel against everything, blaming my education, my parents, my religion (this one I still blame :stuck_out_tongue: ). I just didn’t realize I was very miserable because of something I had gone through.

If it wasn’t for my cousin, I would never have seen that. Strangely, she actually helped me a lot without even knowing she was helping me. I owe her a lot, I mean a lot, and she doesn’t even know it.

In a conversation involving the two of us and two other people, I implied I felt like I was a complete failure at one thing. A few moments later, she just said one innocent, small, insignificant sentence over I joke I was making (over something else). It sounded like a joke, kind of, but she was trying to convince me I wasn’t a failure. The funny thing is she did.

She said what she said because she loves me (as a friend, of course, it’s just liking does not fit in here) and she was worried. I love her a lot, specially after that. My best friend was also an enormous shoulder on which I could unburden my sadness. Without the love of these two people (and the help of a few more), I wouldn’t ever get out of that horrible situation in which I found myself in.

So, even though I never had the bless of feeling love from a girlfriend, I know that trivial is the last word I would associate with love.

i’m taking this fine lady to the dance, but i can’t dance
will this be a problem?

Rum is very best in my experience at least.

Rum seduces no one.

SPICED rum, on the other hand…

DOUBLE POST

To all you women out there, alcohol does not seduce me or get me in bed with you. There is only one way to have me and I’m not telling you. :stuck_out_tongue: [COLOR=‘black’]It’s gram crackers.

Syrupy chocolate chip waffles delivered to your bedside on a Saterday morning?

This is so awesome it brings tears to my eyes.

cwatididthar?

Rum seduces the fuck out of me because I love it and I dont know why.

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