Of course it varies. Everything in a human body varies in size.
Catz, another thread of yours which is slowly losing its topic…i love how great everyone here is at not staying on it. gone from girl advice to talking about reproductive organs, i dare think what is next :fffuuu:
yeah… it is hard around here for folks to stay on topic. Alas, I don’t always help the situation.
And then you lock it for being off topic.
How about girl advice and reproductive organs at the same time? :aah:
What are these “girls” you speak of?
Ah, yes.
So, I don’t know how exact I can make this question, but there’s this girl and the only thing that keeps me away from she is her, ah, “pathological timidity”. When I talk to her, I try to be as much normal as possible, but find problems with timidity. I will try to invite her again (I’ve already tried a luch, and she declined it), but this time with some of her friends (so, she probably will not fell alone).
So, I don’t know how can I approach her without getting the girl on a scared state because of her timidity. Could any of the girls help me with it, please?
As usual, I suggest both of you getting drunk.
I don’t use alcoholic drinks. I have fear for what I could do if I get drunk.
In before lock.
You get superpowers when you drink? :fffuuu:
He’s Duff man in disguise.
@Catz:
Well, it’s generally hard for gamers to stay focused outside of gaming. Or so I have heard. But HumanParadoxx had a good question there. Maybe you wanna answer it? Just mentioning it so it doesn’t get overlooked.
@HumanParadoxx:
I would suggest that in this particular situation, getting to know her better is what should come first. Her timidity must come from somewhere. Your idea of inviting her among friends (both of yours and of hers) could work out pretty well. But alas, I am not experienced enough in such matters to give you really good advice. Maybe some of the gals could?
I agree with Danson. Instead of asking her on a date, I would say hang out with her and her friends more. Let her get to know you via UNdating. UNdating is that phenomenon where people do all the things normal dating people do, but without officially inviting someone to the date, it is normally done as a whole group, and without the kissing at the end of the date. This is many times as seen as just simply hanging out together.
Sometimes an UNdate can happen with an invite if it is handled correctly:
“Me and my buddies are going bowling over at the 3-D alley tomorrow night. It would make a good competition if you and your friends showed up as well.”
Ah, so THAT’S what I’m doing wrong…
hm, I’ll try that. Thanks
I try this a lot but more often than not it just ends up being really awkward between everyone.
Then again I do seem to have this magical ability to make everyone around me feel awkward in social situations. Go figure.
I have a problem. this girl i hooked up with, is the girl my best friend is in love with. my other best friend’s girlfriend is in love with me. i have feelings for neither of these girls, but at the end of the day, i’m the asshole by default.
How are you the asshole?
That is called emotional blackmale, and only douchebags play at it.
Tell them both to piss off, because it is unhealthy what you have happening there. Why would you hang around folks who play emotional games? tell them to play in traffic while you find a real woman with some brains in her head.
one time i was at the water fountain and this hot girl walked up and got behind me. we were alone. she let out this ENORMOUS fart, and before i said anything, she said, “no one will ever believe you if you tell them.” and walked off.