^pretty much
EDIT: holy shit this is my first post, I’ve steered clear of this thread for 25 pages <.>
It’s your sunshine nature :3
Look for Elpants posts in this thread, he already asked a similar question.
To anyone that wants to ask this question, this ^ times 10. If this answer is not good enough here is a bit of a stretch to think about…
- 99% of the world has toilet seats down.
- 99% of the time, the man has to lift up the toilet seat thus getting icky on their hands
- 99% of the time men have to wash their hands to get the icky off after touching the seat THEREFORE…
- Seeing how you already have icky hands, do the rest of the people a favor and put the seat down!
Also. The possible repercussions of leaving the seat up is a lady sitting IN the toilet. The possible repercussions of leaving the seat down is urine on the seat. To which you are simply just a pig.
I honestly don’t see what the big deal is with toilet seats. It’s not that hard to close put the seat down after pissing. It’s not like you’re sacrificing your manhood by putting the seat down or anything.
why is it such a big deal in the first place… just put the seat up or down to suit your needs, whether you’re a man or a woman
i just close the lid, because i don’t want it open when i flush
Hm. I wasn’t asking about whether toilet seat UP or DOWN, ffs.
doh!
Sorry.
Yes I sit.
All women hover a few inches above a public toilet seat because they don’t want to risk getting pregnant.
Also, toilets at McDonald’s… Clean? What country do you live in? >_>
What’s the problem with McDonald’s toilets being clean?
I’m confused. Public toilets are separated by gender. Maybe you mean when you are a guest at someone else’s home?
I’ve never seen anyone complaining about leaving the toilet seat up or down nor saying that they find it disgusting to touch the toilet seat.
same here tbh
That post was built on the assumption that the original question was whether the toilet seat should be left up or put down.
The concept of mystery to me is itself mysterious.
We already know so little about people… why would women desire to know less?
Isn’t that dangerous? What if one mystery about a guy is that he is a serial killer? (see Dexter). Or worse, an abusive alchoholic pedophile? Of course, people wouldn’t come out and say that they are these sorts of things, but people tend to be clever at hiding the bad about themselves.
I would consider myself to be a mystery in some ways, but I go to great length to ensure that people understand me, at least a little. I share my goals, aspirations, and point of view generally without filter.
In the past I have been told that this is not what you should share with a girl if you want her to be interested in you. It is very difficult for me to hold back, as I feel like I am not being truthful with them.
The truth and honesty in general is very important to me. To hide your thoughts because a person wishes to manipulate another into liking them is revolting, to me.
I think the only thing I was attempting to stress in the beginning of the thread is that a man does not need to … no… let me rephrase that… a man must not insist on revealing everything about himself on the first date.
Most women would like to discover you while you in turn discover them.
Sticking my finger in my butt, then shoving said finger into girl’s face:
Attractive, or EXTREMELY attractive?
See Fnoigy, That’s why your mother told you not to chase parked cars… “Butt” would you listen? Nooooooooo.
Part of the mystery thing, is that if there is too much of a predictable pattern, then people get bored. No one wants to be bored. Also, women have more data points to access if we look at both social and emotional aspects, in terms of it being a topography map. Men can see the same map, women are better at using it.
That said, the “Mystery” part is not so much the foundation of who the person is, (As in base charater) so much as it is sharing/having/exploring varoius experiences together.
Sounds simple enough, but then, men and women approach that differently.
Perhaps most of it is finding and being willing to both understand and function in the middle ground?
Shadow’s posts make me saaad.
Is it bad that the only female I know IRL is my mother?
Go for the gold, dude!
However, you are forgetting one important thing – Most people don’t actually know themselves that well. You may think you know yourselves, but in reality, you don’t.
You can’t really observe yourselves properly in emotionally-strong situations, such as when you are angry or depressed or under a lot of stress. You may think that you handle stress well, or that you are reasonable when angry, but the truth may be very different, you may have unbearable habbits in those situations.
Also, once you date someone and especially once you start living with someone, you will most likely run into situations that you’ve never been in before, and therefore you can’t really know beforehand how will you (re)act to those situations. Take mr. Shadow’s recent case – he didn’t know what to do when his girl cheated on him, simply because he never was in such situation before. How could he talk about his reactions to unfaithfulness on first date, if he never checked his reactions to it before?
So, Catz recommends not to say everything about yourselves on the first date, but don’t worry, you cannot say everything even if you tried, simply because you don’t know everything.
Still, it’s probably not clever to talk about all the girls you had before this one, or to burden her with details about how bad your current work is, or describe in details what sexual positions you like/dislike.
It is always good to have more than one opinion. Sassy is stating what she sees, and I am stating what I have seen. You guys can digest and decide for yourselves what feels right for you.