Girl Advise

#461

My condolences as well dear. Unfortunately, a possible yes always has a possible no. You are better to know right now rather than waiting for her to get her act together and move on how she feels. Who knows… you two could have been together another 5 months before she decided to grow some courage and end it.

If it was meant to happen, it would have. Which is not really very helpful, but 5 months from now it wont hurt as much and it you will start to understand and really believe it.

Hugs for you dear.
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Mr.Shadow)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Allow yourself some mourning. When you are ready you will know it, and you will move on and love again.

#462

thanks alot. It made me slightly less sad.

#463

That’s not why I’m a pessimist.
Pessimists are never right, and are always disappointed. :pirate:

#464

Sorry I’m late, but… girls have phone numbers? I wasn’t aware.

P.S. At Mr. Shadow- ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha life sucks doesnt it

#465

it’s touching how supportive and loving this community can be :slight_smile:

edit: haha shit, I was actually being serious… :ninja:

#466

i’m a little ray of sunshine

#467

Well, there is always a risk with love/relationships of any kind. We risk varous things - People are not simple math problems that are always predictive.

So much of life is dealing with uncertianty. So, do we stay holed up some where afraid to move forward? Or do we put ourselves out there and hope for the best?

I was not originally aware of the full situation when I first posted, but then - even if I had been, what I say dose not mean a whole bunch. It is an experience that has happened, and now what remains are your choices.

Only you can make those Shadow. Feel what you need to, only be careful in finalizing what anything from this means to you. It is the value/way we see it/ etc, that gives an experience meaning. Also, do not dump on yourself if you are doing that - You are not perfect, and she is not perfect. No one on the planet is perfect. We make choices every day - some work, while others… .

#468

You are the glint of light reflecting off the deep caverns of the goatman’s distended anus.

Mr. Shadow, it’s gonna hurt for a while, but you’ll move on. Chill with some buds, enjoy yourself and take your mind off your troubles.

#469

light’s light

#470

…touché…

#471

This discussion of photons bouncing off extruding and ruptured rectums through stretched anal openings is interesting and insightful, but maybe we should migrate to the discussion of penises bouncing off the chastity belts of unwilling and disgusted women.

#472

I don’t think his rectum ever ruptures at this point.

Also, there’s not a chastity belt yet that has been able to deflect MY manhood.

,’:-J

#473

Oh, no, going off topic, save this thread before it’s too late :stuck_out_tongue:

@ Bolteh: I confess I was too optimistic with Mr. Shadow’s proposal, I was carried out by my criticism about your apathetic view of the world. I’ll give you that one. :meh:

I tend to agree with you. Cheating is indeed something horrible that I couldn’t do. It’s just not in my nature. And I don’t get drunk, so one less excuse for me :slight_smile:

It is completely valid to choose never to forgive such a thing. After all, you should expect that people give you back the same respect you give them. But you won’t be able to expect your partner to tell you he or she cheated on you, even if he or she is sorry. I also have trouble believing that such simplistic generalization as “never forgive cheating” will always work. I know one real case where forgiving (in my opinion) turned out for the best. The couple was married for many years, though, which makes it very different from this case.

So… What then? My head can’t connect all the dots… If my girlfriend (that I don’t have :frowning: ) cheated on me, I would at least stop talking to her for some days and confront her about it. I don’t know if I could forgive her, though.

#474

somehow girls find me attractive HALP D:

#475

Give ME your attractiveness - I’ll try to handle it for you.

I’m always willing to help :slight_smile:

#476

people find me attractive but they don’t find me dateable i think it is the beard
edit: and also because i am a multiple felon

#477

Is it true that a person gets more girl attention if they act gay?

#478

Could I get an answer to the toilet-seat question, please?

#479

Not a girl, but…
my opinion for both genders: Just close the fucking lid.

No debate, more sanitation, everyone’s equally hassled, etc.

#480

^Pretty much.

Well, not for me, but then again I am weird so I dunno :stuck_out_tongue:

Personally, I’ve noticed that there is a big misunderstanding among men of where manliness stops and… “gayness” begins. I personally do not like Neanderthals, I’m all up for a man who, for instance, looks after his skin and worries when he needs to get a haircut/trim his beard/take a bath, but when you go all out and put on nail enamel, eye makeup and foundation to hide your acne, then things go awry… So yeah, for me, being able to find the middle ground when it comes to personal appearance/behavior is hawt. Oh yeah :jizz:

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