Worst breakups.

#121

I’m in a sort of weird half-relationship with this girl. She’s really cute, and I like her, but we hardly ever see each other. The big hold up is that she doesn’t want her parents to know I exist, and all this other bullshit. She keeps telling me she wants to take our friendship to the next level when she can, but every day, I lose a little more faith in her, considering this thing, whatever the hell it is, has gone on for about five months now.

I’m having a really hard time whether or not I should stay, because every attempt to discuss the problem doesn’t really go anywhere.

Sigh.

#122

You won’t. I bet you’ll meet someone new soon enough.

oh and also find things to do to distract yourself, form a new habit; go running or step on crunchy leaves or something. Dwelling on it and feeling miserable for yourself never solves anything, been there done that.

#123

If she doesn’t want her parts to know, and shes avoiding the conversations, then you either are not trying hard enough to talk to her about it, or you don’t know what you want.
Because, if it has been going on for 5 months or so, its not going to stop/start getting better until you guys talk it through, and discuss what you both really want.

#124

now im completely numb and i wish i was dead. is this progress

#125

Depends on the goal.

#126

All I know is this:
If it had been any other 21-year old girl who started this thread and used the exact same wording and responses, she would most likely be told to get a grip or defenitely get ridiculed more.

I thought I understood this BM forum after all these years, apparently not so much :slight_smile:

#127

Outsider.

#128

lurk moar lol

#129

i was forced to eat a piece of bread. my appetite is just gone

#130

I’m eating pizza. It’s nice.

How long were you with this boy?

#131

this boi

#132

I think Fancy and Shadi should date.

#133

it would be the perfect disaster

#134

officially, not long. but we had been talking for a fairly long time

#135

Is that the same guy you were talking about a year and a half ago about how I was wrong not to believe in the concept of “true love”, or some new guy?

#136

No offense to anyone, but I’ve come to the conclusion “true love” is a myth and for suckers. There is no such thing. A foggy condition that fogs your sense to the truth of the matter that true love in fact does not exist. It’s only after we’ve had our hearts ripped to pieces that we realize it does not exist.

I believe all you can really do is find someone you like, that you have some things in common with, to hang out with and just go with the flow until it meets it’s inevitable end. Then rinse repeat. I’ve simplified the process in my life and it seems to be going much better.

:wink:

#137

new guy

#138

Subjective != objective

btw, fancy, you’re starting to sound more like your old self

#139

No argument.

But in all honesty, I don’t know anyone or have met anyone who have been in a relationship longer than 10 years. I knew one couple, a couple from high school who were together for 20 years, but in the end they divorced and now can’t stand each other anymore. I have seen nothing in my life to date that leads me to believe there exists the concept of “true love”.

Now don’t get me wrong, that’s not saying I don’t believe you can love someone, I just don’t believe in ‘true’ love. shrugs

#140

Why do I have a terrible feeling that you’ve only been dating this guy for 3 months?

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