i dun get it, or was that just completely random
i feel you though, lacking confidence suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucks
you were telling him not to tell people how to do stuff but this very act was telling people how to do stuff and I figured I’d cap the irony by telling you not to tell people to do stuff.
but yeah. I need a fucking boost. Idk how or where from, but I need one.
Having another fit of doubting and doomthinking. Fuck.
Anyone got any (positive) experiences with anxiety therapy?
oh i c now
i hate intolerance!! (despite the bad joke, i actually do though)
triphop,nu jazz, anything relatively down tempo electronica with elements of blues. Drony ethereal type stuff.
At least that’s what helps me out. Totally might not apply to anyone else at all and probably won’t.
I’m going into therapy soon, I think it’ll help. It definitely helps to talk to people about your anxieties, because it gives you some perspective.
Don’t know you that well, but it seems like this is a long-term problem for you, so yeah, therapy could do you some good. Can’t hurt to try, anyway.
I think the main thing about it, for me anyway, is the feeling that there’s a safe spot for you to express your anxieties, and having someone there to remind you that they’re absolutely useless.
Is there a more rage infusing song than Don’t worry, be happy when you’re already raging?
First time ever I actively browse Imgur and I end up on this within seconds: https://imgur.com/gallery/U6Vxr
Shit. That’s accurate.
FUCK YOU GOAT PIG!!!
Why, you might ask? BECAUSE I’M A FUCKING GOAT PIG!!!
Nah, I like that song. Never understood why people hate it.
On a related note, it started playing when I used the spotify radio feature while I played BF3 earlier today. The song I based the radio on was ‘You can call me Al’ by Paul Simon.
Everyone has different tastes I suppose. It depends on what music you love. Metal is the one I enjoy the most.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=28fk5jVxE2E
this shit always makes me feel better without failure.
and
The GF kind of picked up on the anxiety + she has been struggling with some personal shit as well (3 people she knows really well have been diagnosed with cancer this past month), so she’s been thinking/worrying/pondering a lot lately as well.
Now she seems to be avoiding spending time with me (not sleeping over) and she doesn’t reply to my texts that mention something along the lines of “miss you” or “love you”, but does reply to texts like “I bet you didn’t expect Ned Stark’s death?”.
But the times she is actually here, she does say “too”, does hug me back, does kiss me back etc, albeit rather distant in general.
I want to give her some room to think, but now I fear that she might perceive that as not wanting to be with her or something.
Boo love, I say. Boo. It’s more stressful than my actual job.
Just give her some time, we all need some alone time, even from our most loved one. I can’t begin to imagine the stress she’s going through with her friends being diagnosed with cancer.
Also, let her know you’re there for her if she wants to talk about it, vent, etc, then let her decide her own course of action.
We decided to check out a psychologist together and see if that helps with her emotional struggles as well as my anxiety issues.
My worrying causes her to worry that this relationship is doomed to fail, yet she doesn’t want to lose me as a friend again (this already happened many years ago), so her mind is now blocking out certain romantic feelings for me.
Worth noting: up until last week she was madly in love with me, including the butterflies and what not, so it’s not like it’s a “I love you like a brother” situation.
Hopefully therapy will do us both good.
Why do restaurant employees insist on wrapping receipts around credit cards? No one else does this for a reason. What is the first thing you do with your returned credit card? You stick it back in your wallet slot. Why add a step that no one wants to undo? Fuck you and fuck your receipt wraps!