On the subject of ADHD : Almost my entire family suffers from autism to varying levels of severity. My sister’s the worst affected, followed by my brother, then myself and my ma. I used to be affected quite badly by ADHD, but it’s eased off over the years, still shows through on occasion and I’ll go on a manic spree of some completely random non-sensical shit. It’s a major pain in the ass as it affects your attention span, affects your ability to learn, and can generally make you do some really crazy shit. I read the trashcan thing and was like: “Yep, been there, done that.” Sounds like you have a more serious level of it though.
EDIT: Oh, just noticed I’ve made a hundred posts here. Woot and stuff.